Portrait of obsession (composite)

[Ava]

This would make a nice exhibit in the Museum of Amazing Charts that I will open once I win a large enough lottery jackpot. (My sun is conjunct the luck asteroid Tyche, so I'm optimistic and expecting my rewards.)

Here goes: my male friend from high school fell in love with my best friend, at first sight, about 25 years ago. They never dated. The other day, with Mercury turning Rx on his sun, he sent her two FB friend requests. Which makes about 30 requests in the past few years. She's a Pisces and doesn't have the heart to reject him. But she doesn't want to accept, either. 

He used to buy her extravagant gifts which made her feel terribly guilty.

The transits here represent his natal, though I don't know his birth time. Notice his sun's ruler, Jupiter, is right on their composite sun? So of course he wanted to give her presents!!





I hope it's not rude to post this. I don't blame him for liking her, I'm fond of her myself.  

His Mars in Aries is conjunct her Venus-SN, by the way, and Uranus is transiting there, so no wonder he's trying to reconnect. Their Mars-Venus conjunction opposes his moon-Uranus, more or less. 

Hmm, she's an Aqua moon, he's moon-Uranus........

Well I gave up trying to be a matchmaker for them when I was 17. 

Their composite Mercury is exactly on my Mercury, though. So of course I have to make a report about this. 

Please don't quote, I might decide this is insensitive later.......not sure.

[lumina]

What a fascinating case! (and really sad for him though). hope you don`t withdraw it.
Anyway, I wonder, can you see the unrequitedness by a disbalance in how the composite aspects their natal charts?

I am just remembering a composite with a male colelague who was having a soft spot for me (which I didn`t realize of course. lol and by now he`s married and the third child has just been born, so life moved on of course.) I did finally realize that it is pretty unusual for a man to pay so much attention, and well he seemed to always know where I was or becoming aware of me, even when I was metres away, and noticing the silliest things, like even me wearing a scarf I rarely wear. And actually downright apologizing more than once when he could not give me a ride home, which was a detour for him, which he persistently denied.
Anyway the composite has a Sun-Venus-conjunction at about 16 Capricorn - yes I know. lol - and that Sun-Venus-conjunction was trine his Mars exactly, but also squaring his Moon-Chiron-conjunction and opposing my Saturn, so sort of bringing my Saturn squaring his Moon-Chiron even more to the forefront.

[lumina]

I wonder if his Venus/Mars-mp is on their composite Venus?

Also the Venus-Neptune-square in the composite alone, honestly? I think part of the tantalizing attraction for him might even have been the fact she was out of reach.
Of course not consciously but Venus-Neptune in a square just makes me think that something is just TOO Neptunian about the Venus-side of things. On the other hand I have seen very grounded relationships with composite Moon square Neptune (like my best friend and her husband have, but Moon is also trine Sun very closely in their composite).

Anyway Venus-Neptune, just so dreamy and romantic and magical, but in a square aspect, possibly not easy to live on this earth and physical reality. It`s possible of course, just a caveat, and since you said she is not into him and has never been, well, it seems that it manifests like that her ein this case.

I am honest though while I find challenging Neptune-aspects manageable in synastry, in composite they are more of a red flag to me than any other planet, including Saturn, URanus and Pluto squares and oppositions. And I would like to find some very very strong synastric aspects or composite aspects, prefereably either between personal planets including Venus, and with Saturn most certainly.

but well doesn`t matter in this instance, as you said, it is unrequited. So the question is why is he so attracted to her or that connection?
Does he have strong and complicated Neptune in his natal chart? esp. aspecting Venus or Moon or Mars or connected to 7th or 5th house? Is she fulfilling his partner profile so well?
Is he attached to the composite/relationship by strongest aspects? Well the Jupiter there would be one. Venus on Mercury is also interesting. He must love the thought of them.


Hmm his Pluto squares Venus/Neptune-mp?