Ava"My pr Mars squares my husband's pr Mercury (and that seems to fit our dynamic lately) but it's way out of orb."
Maybe, if it is not too far out of orb, a transit is triggering both?
Or it might be something different.
I observed the 1 degree orb in terms of the progressed Moon to be spot on. Actually last year P`s and my pr composite had pr Moon square Chiron, and there was a difficult time period, which ended right on the day the orb was 1°01. lol And I have seen that over and over at least with pr Moon.
Often things will happen if the progressions are near exact and/ or are being trigggered by transits. (I use 1 degree orb for transits, maybe 1°30, unless they are eclipses which seem to have an orb of about 3 degrees, other transits not so much. I know some advise 5 degrees for a Pluto transit for example, but imo that is useless, as this spans a period of what? 5 years?)
Maybe our problem, which this site pinpointed, is his pr Jupiter conjunct my pr Pluto...
Could be a big success constellation - in an individual progression or solar arc chart it often is called the big success aspect. But not always sometimes it just expands on the power games. Or making a conviction unshakeable even if it is detrimental.
While in a natal or progresse chart this can actually be a big power/ success/ strong belief aspect, I am not fond of it in synastry. I mean sure if you want to keep a business afloat, great. But there is just so little emotion coming with it. It is a power couple, business aspect, sometimes reminding me of religious organizations, too, and I am not fond of those either. lol
also pr Jupiter conjunct pr Pluto needs to be really close, and in this instance I would always check where in the natal they fall, and which houses Jupiter and Pluto rule, to see which areas of life are being affected. it CAN be a relationship aspect if the 7th house or 5th house are indicated of course.
"Also his pr moon @ 16.57 Cap, conjunct my natal sun but separating."
That is an interesting one of course!
His draco Venus @ 20 Cap conjunct pr draco Pluto @ 20 Cap exactly conjunct transiting Pluto, soooo.....I don't know what happens when his pr moon makes it there but I doubt I'm gonna fish my wish, which is "mellow out, please."
Yeah well to me this is probably the clincher, I mean come on, it is all on 20 Cap!!!!!!
and nope, not mellowing out I fear, but you seem to be very powerful in this relation at the moment. I mean you are for a longr time with pr draco Pluto moving so slowly, but it is extra significant now because Pluto is transiting there as well!
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The partile progressions P and me have at the current time are: (I left the outer ones out mostly)
his p Mercury conjunct my p Sun (12-11 Aquarius, still within 1 degree, but slowly separating)
his p Venus trine my p DESC (14 Pisces - 15 Cancer, just having come into orb and applying)
his p Uranus square my pMercury (25 SCorpio - 25 Aqua - and a looooong lasting one, as my p Mercury is basicaly still stationary)
his p Vertex conjunct my pUranus (3-2 Scorpio)
his p Vertex trine my p Venus (3 Scorpio - 2 Pisces)
his p Juno trine my p Jupiter (18 Cancer - 19 Pisces, but separating, it is a very long progression)
his p Vesta trine my p Mars (7 Taurus - 7 Cap)
his p Pholus conjunct my p Ceres (24-23 Pisces - applying, and my p Ceres is just 7 minutes off 24 Pisces)
his p Priapus conjunct my p Venus (2 Pisces)
his p Priapus trine my p Uranus (2 Pisces - 2 Scorpio)
his p ASC trine my p Moon (13 Gemini - 13 Libra)
his p MC trine my p Pluto (8 Aquarius - 9 Libra, applying)
his p Sun trine my n DESC (7 Aquarius - 7 Gemini)
(his p Moon opposite my n Sun 2 degrees - so let`s talk in about 2 months about this one. lol, and next one it will be opposite my n Mercury)
his p Pholus square my n Mercury (24 Pisces - 25 Sag)
my p Sun quinkunx his n Mars (11 Aqua - 11 Virgo)
my p Venus conjunct his n SN (2-1 Pisces, separating)
my p Mars square his n Ceres (7 Cap - 7 Aries)
my p Neptune square his n Mars (11 Sag - 11 Virgo)
my p NN trine his n Ceres (7 Sag - 7 Aries) - my p NN has just entered the degree of my n ASC on 7 Sag
my p Ceres trine his n Uranus (23 Pisces - 23 Scorpio)
my p Ceres conjunct his n Pholus (23 Pisces - and my pr name in his chart has just entered 23 Pisces too)
my p Ceres conjunct his n ASC 1 degree applying: 1°41 - it is still out of orb, but those Ceres makes me nervous. lol Also my p Ceres is exactly triny my p Eros on 23 Cancer and trines his n Uranus and conjuncts his n Pholus on his pr "My name".
my p Juno conjunct his n Ceres (7 Aries - it has just enterd the degree - and of course MORE Ceres)
my p Vesta conjunct his n Venus (25 Cap)
my p Vesta trine his n DESC (25 Cap - 25 Virgo)
my p Pholus square his n Mercury (8 Pisces - 9 Sag)
my p Priapus trine his n Neptune (20 Leo - 20 Sag)
and just looking up some with Eros, Psyche, Amor. lol
my pEros trine his n Uranus (23 Cancer - 23 Scorpio)
my p Eros trine his n Pholus (23 Cancer - 23 Pisces)
my p NN square his n Eros (7 Sag - 8 Pisces - separating)
my p Pholus conjunct his n Eros (8 Pisces)
my p Mercury conjunct his n Psyche (25 Aquarius)
my p Pholus opposite his n Amor (8 Pisces - 9 Virgo)
his p Eros conjunct my n IC (4 Aries - has just entered the degree)
his p Psyche conjunct my n Jupiter (11 Pisces)
his p Moon trine my n Psyche (23 Gemini - 24 Aquarius)
his p Priapus square my n Amor (2 Pisces - 2 Sag)