This guy says I'm everything he's been looking for.

[empathetic]

But we aren't compatible is he just saying this because my Venus is conjunct his North Node? I'm the read person in the synastry.
This is our synastry and composite 

[Ava]

Hi empathetic

I do think your Venus on his north node could extend the amount of time you two are involved but not necessarily create emotional closeness. Perhaps it helps explain his comment that you are everything he is looking for: that comment may pertain to your style, your beauty, your kindness, every manifestation of your exalted Venus in Pisces. However, even beauty and kindness don't necessarily always add up to love and compatibility.

Pardon my bluntness but if someone told me we weren't compatible, I would just be gone (Sag Venus here). Especially if the guy had a stellium in Sag including sun and moon. (!) But perhaps as a Taurus, you just don't let go of things (or people or goals) that easily? Composite sun-Venus opp Mars hitting your natal moon could also make this difficult to let go of, especially when the comp sun is at the base of a kite formation. In my experience, composite-kite relationships can feel difficult or impossible to walk out of. The structure is weirdly lasting, especially if it's hitting our natal chart strongly, as it is in your case.

Still, for what it's worth, conventionally it's not looking like a great synastry:
* sun quincunx sun
* Moon semisquare moon
* Mercury quincunx Mercury
* Venus square Venus

The composite also has the NN square Neptune, indicating potential aimlessness or confusion about the purpose of being together.

You're about to have your nodal return in Aries; a lesson for natives with this NN is forging greater independence. I hope you have a good time with that and enjoy your own company so much that perhaps this guy fades to the background. Well for the entire planet, transiting north node in Aries carries the lesson of self-sufficiency within self-care. Love ourselves first, put our oxygen mask on first before we try to help or merge with others. Best of luck!

[empathetic]

Jan 15, 2024 12:21:44 GMT Ava said:

Hi empathetic

I do think your Venus on his north node could extend the amount of time you two are involved but not necessarily create emotional closeness. Perhaps it helps explain his comment that you are everything he is looking for: that comment may pertain to your style, your beauty, your kindness, every manifestation of your exalted Venus in Pisces. However, even beauty and kindness don't necessarily always add up to love and compatibility.

Pardon my bluntness but if someone told me we weren't compatible, I would just be gone (Sag Venus here). Especially if the guy had a stellium in Sag including sun and moon. (!) But perhaps as a Taurus, you just don't let go of things (or people or goals) that easily? Composite sun-Venus opp Mars hitting your natal moon could also make this difficult to let go of, especially when the comp sun is at the base of a kite formation. In my experience, composite-kite relationships can feel difficult or impossible to walk out of. The structure is weirdly lasting, especially if it's hitting our natal chart strongly, as it is in your case.

Still, for what it's worth, conventionally it's not looking like a great synastry:
* sun quincunx sun
* Moon semisquare moon
* Mercury quincunx Mercury
* Venus square Venus

The composite also has the NN square Neptune, indicating potential aimlessness or confusion about the purpose of being together.

You're about to have your nodal return in Aries; a lesson for natives with this NN is forging greater independence. I hope you have a good time with that and enjoy your own company so much that perhaps this guy fades to the background. Well for the entire planet, transiting north node in Aries carries the lesson of self-sufficiency within self-care. Love ourselves first, put our oxygen mask on first before we try to help or merge with others. Best of luck!

Thank you for your input do you think the other guy (I asked about in the other thread) might reconnect when Venus and Mercury are both in retrograde next year?