lily
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Post by lily on Mar 10, 2023 19:22:17 GMT
This guy and I met seven months ago and were friends with benefits. Things were rocky between us and we stopped talking in January. I mistreated him due to previous trauma and because of my insecurities. Recently I started Therapy last month and am working on my issues. But I miss this person and I want us to reconcile but so far they will not talk to me. Even though we were only friends with benefits this person was like family to me. Is it worth me trying to reconcile with this person in the future? I'm the Taurus on the outside in the synastry the other chart is the Composite chart.
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Post by Ava on Mar 12, 2023 0:39:02 GMT
Hi lilyBest of luck with therapy. Maybe he just needs time to recover; sounds like the ball is in his court. If you've sent an apology, that's probably the best you can do for now. You two have sun square nodes going both ways, and a full moon squaring the nodes in composite, which looks karmic. Possibly the relationship did require more sustained focus and commitment than "friends with benefits" really allows for, in order to survive and thrive. It doesn't look casual. The composite Cap stellium opposing Chiron on his sun does look potentially heavy, but it's offset by Venus at the "point of Thales" on your sun. So it would be very important here to express more of those Venusian qualities to make the relationship worthwhile. For now it seems composite Chiron on his sun represents woundedness, but it's not hopeless. With Gemini Mars transiting and stationing right near your Mars, it's understandable that you lost patience and said things you might regret now. I have Gemini Mars and that's my life as well. Because we live in such a text-based, verbal society, this placement is even more susceptible to creating damage. But there's so much more to us, and to our lives, than just words. In my experience, sometimes taking a break in relationships is a way of gently healing it. Other, more orderly energies can begin to surface in the silence. Because Gemini Mars squares his moon, this whole long transit may have been more or less aggravating to him. Cancer Mercury has difficulties being completely open so there's a need to resolve things more psychically (in keeping with composite Pisces NN). Your sun sextile his Mercury is an asset because your BEING is in alignment with the things he'd want to communicate on a deeper level. As a Taurus you are probably good looking and if you have social media the standard tactic would be to just keep living and posting flattering pics of yourself. Best wishes...
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