Possible Marriage Prediction- Synastry, Composite?

[melanie]

Hello friends! A couple of months before my solar return, I asked the forum if I would get into a new relationship. Well earlier this year, when the Great Conjunction + Mercury in early degrees of Aquarius trined my descendant point, I got into my first relationship!!! I also checked his chart, and I noticed this same transit was opposite his Venus, and trining Mercury (his 7th house ruler!), pretty crazy right?

I also got his time of birth, and I realized he has the same ascendant as me which is pretty cool. I also saw other major aspects, such as:

-His Moon Conjunct my North Node

-My North Node and Eros Conjunct his Vertex

-My Part of Fortune conjunct his Venus

Besides ascendant, we also have the same sun and venus sign. Do you guys see any possibility of this turning into a marriage, or at least some type of serious/soulmate relationship, based on the synastry or composite charts? Before I knew his birthtime, I've been having dreams related to marriage, and I even made an horary chart for this question and I believe I received a yes . The more I am studying astrology the more I am astonished! (Inserting composite, synastry, and horary if you are curious). I thought this story would be cool to share with you guys, I appreciate any insights, thank you! 

[Ava]

Hi melanie,

That is cool about the timing for your relationship beginning.

Hope others answer...

I had two quick, strong impressions about the composite:

1. Composite looks uplifting and profound, with the sun-Jupiter opposition on the nodes. Have you seen this?



"Extreme encouragement"

2. The Juno-Uranus conjunction in Aqua could make marriage seem like the most exciting and logical choice, but Juno-Uranus squaring Scorpio Chiron indicates some hardship or tension with regards to marriage. The synastry is impressive and it seems you might have lasting compatibility but you might have a lot to go through before you end up married, if you do. And then you might remember pre-wedding days as happier and more exciting. Not necessarily tragic, could be just some nagging dissatisfaction, that Juno-Chiron square.

[melanie]

Thank you Ava for your insight!  I am feeling both jupiter oppositions and pluto squares. It does feel challenging but also very positive at the same time which is weird. I do hope that juno square chiron doesn't affect to much, although they are asteroids so hopefully not.
Are you familiar with vertex/north node aspects? I've read apparently it is a common marriage aspect, but since I haven't seen many marriage charts, I have no idea.

[Ava]

melanie

You got me thinking about the Vertex. I'll start a new thread on it; I need to learn more.

For what it's worth my husband's Vertex is widely conjunct my true NN, 2°44 orb. The author of this helpful article...

cafeastrology.com/vertex.html

...uses 2° orb, so I'm not sure if that counts. I am tempted to count it, though.

She writes:

I use the Vertex in all of my astrological work. In synastry, it is often prominent in significant relationships: one person’s personal planet or ASC conjuncts or opposes the other person’s Vertex, generally conjuncts. I use a rather tight orb of 2 degrees. These interaspects are not present in all significant relationships, but when they are present in romantic connections, there is a rather common theme in place: the individuals meet and do not fall in love right away. In fact, there can be some feeling of reluctance, and, unlike South Node connections in synastry, they don’t feel an instant sense of recognition. When they do fall in love, it is much like an “epiphany”(1) — sort of on the lines of “Wow, I really do like you–I didn’t expect this!” The feelings come “out of the blue” and in a rush of feeling.

^ That was the case with my husband and me. 

Does that match your experience, too? Did you two know each other a while and then the feelings switched on suddenly?