kindly ask for your input - lovey dovey and strange synastry

[enneline]

Dear All:

i've met someone special <3 - butterflies in my stomach and he is not anything i pictured before; he's totally different- another culture, foreigner, job and often on the road and we still get along great together with lots of tolerance <3

when i looked at our synastry, i really had to smirke: all my long-term relationships had a aquarius asc causing my cancer placements falling in their 5th house. That applies here as well; also, one of my exes was a sun cap as well. 

nonetheless our synastry is scary: soo many opposititions and squares oh my gosh. 

What i see that the rulers of all our angles are opposite to each other: 

- his asc ruler uranus opposes my moon, my asc ruler
- ruler of his mc is opposite ruler of my descendant
- ruler of his descendant his opposite my venus, ruler of my ic
- his ic ruler is opposite both my sun and asc

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not to mention the double whammy sun opposite venus

And of course we also have sun square moon and venus square moon.

What is also striking: we both have uranus on our descendant in our progressed charts. We are foreigners for each other

In case we will able to form a committed relationship, it will be long distance and very exotic

What do you think about our synastry?

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[img src="imgur.com/bfUaahZ" style="max-width:100%;" alt="" src="https://imgur.com/bfUaahZ"]

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[lumina]

enneline

not much concentration at the moment, but wanted to tell you I am so happy for you. That sounds great. 

Also there is little stronger connection (maybe luminaries and planets tightly conjunct the angles) than ruler aspects to each other. It shows people who are connected on a deep level and sharing experiences. In my opinion the opposition just indicates some differences in temperament or similiar things, but not necessarily incompatibility; they do require to "look through someones eyes" and being open and tolerant and flexible of course, but people can add to each other`s perspective tremendously, if they accept some different views and accept the other party as "own person". Little danger of codepency here. and yes, very fitting for you having different backgrounds. 

[lumina]

wow you really ARE opposites! Just taking the personal planets into acccount, I think you could learn a lot with and from each other, but as I said, with the condition that you both have to accept each other as a person with a right to have own (sometimes different) viewpoints.

[enneline]

thank you for the feedback

yes, he is sooo different from me and basically nothing what i ever wanted and at the same time everything i ever wanted. He is from another continent, different culture, different political views, different things we believe in- on the other hand we also share the same values and views. We are both aware of our differencies and decided to be tolerant with each other

[12YearsABlob]

Sept 6, 2019 11:22:03 GMT lumina said:

enneline

not much concentration at the moment, but wanted to tell you I am so happy for you. That sounds great. 

Also there is little stronger connection (maybe luminaries and planets tightly conjunct the angles) than ruler aspects to each other. It shows people who are connected on a deep level and sharing experiences. In my opinion the opposition just indicates some differences in temperament or similiar things, but not necessarily incompatibility; they do require to "look through someones eyes" and being open and tolerant and flexible of course, but people can add to each other`s perspective tremendously, if they accept some different views and accept the other party as "own person". Little danger of codepency here. and yes, very fitting for you having different backgrounds. 

Right, especially given the Moon-Uranus opposition.

When you said "lovey-dovey", I immediately thought of moon-venus or moon-neptune aspects.. Guess I was wrong, lol, there's only one moon-venus aspect... But you guys have mutual Mars-Neptune aspects - whoa. Hard to put the brakes on this one, and Venus-Saturn might just cement it.. 

I'm glad you've found someone who makes you this happy!

[Ava]

Sept 6, 2019 11:24:02 GMT lumina said:

wow you really ARE opposites!

Yeah, it looks fated. I mean what are the chances of having so many oppositions and squares? Even the nodes are square.

enneline, I'd love to see the composite if you feel like posting it. 

[enneline]

thanks all for your input- yes, the synastry looks dramatic and i have been really asking myself why we are sooo drawn to each other, where the sexual attraction stems from, why we get along so well and why it has been so harmonious so far. Maybe it's going to become dramatic. 

Here's our composite:

I like the grand trine, even though moon sq venus and saturn conj ic don't make fun

[enneline]

and this our davison, another grand trine: 

[anela]

Composite Jupiter in the first looks friendly/happy. I hope it continues to work out for you.

[Ava]

Sept 7, 2019 6:14:18 GMT anela said:

Composite Jupiter in the first looks friendly/happy. I hope it continues to work out for you.

I agree...Jupiter quintile Mars looks easygoing and positive, too.

Thank you for posting that enneline .

Lots of strong Mars-Jupiter contacts here, with your natal Mars-Jupiter sextile forming a yod with his sun, and composite Mars conjunct his Jupiter in Pisces. 

Composite sun conjunct NN opp Venus...with Venus-SN on your moon, sun-NN on his moon...that's incredible! I think your composite nodes are squaring that last eclipse, which was conjunct your sun (and composite moon)? 

Your composite features that IC-Saturn conjunction...I have this with my husband, it seems to be one of those "superglue" aspects. I think your Mercury-Jupiter there can keep the good times rolling, but I do think there is potential for the seriousness to weigh you down. Also, my guess is, composite Juno conjunct Chiron and Uranus right on the DSC hint at some pain and upheavals if you are together for a long time. But perhaps the opposite is also true, that there is healing in togetherness, and excitement and brilliance.

Your moon is conjunct that composite Juno-Chiron so maybe that means your honest reactions will determine how that conjunction plays out.

The composite moon is conjunct your sun-ASC in Cancer so that probably generates a lot of warmth ~ you feel like you are shining here, understood and respected. 

His IC-SN is conjunct your Juno...composite chart ruler Venus is in the SN in the 12th house. These seem like indications of a past life together? With Saturn on your NN it's like you were destined to have to deal with Saturn figures again, Saturnine issues. 

Fascinating astrology here, best of luck to you both, please keep us posted.

[enneline]

[.... But you guys have mutual Mars-Neptune aspects - whoa. Hard to put the brakes on this one, and Venus-Saturn might just cement it.. [/div]

I'm glad you've found someone who makes you this happy!

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Thank you for your input

Yes, the oppositions are scary and yeah I hope there won’t be any brakes

I think I have never experienced Saturn on my venus or any personal planet: that guy really made me to comitt really quick- I was astonished by myself

[enneline]

Sept 7, 2019 11:57:02 GMT Ava said:

Sept 7, 2019 6:14:18 GMT anela said:

Composite Jupiter in the first looks friendly/happy. I hope it continues to work out for you.

I agree...Jupiter quintile Mars looks easygoing and positive, too.

Thank you for posting that enneline .

Lots of strong Mars-Jupiter contacts here, with your natal Mars-Jupiter sextile forming a yod with his sun, and composite Mars conjunct his Jupiter in Pisces. 

Composite sun conjunct NN opp Venus...with Venus-SN on your moon, sun-NN on his moon...that's incredible! I think your composite nodes are squaring that last eclipse, which was conjunct your sun (and composite moon)? 

Your composite features that IC-Saturn conjunction...I have this with my husband, it seems to be one of those "superglue" aspects. I think your Mercury-Jupiter there can keep the good times rolling, but I do think there is potential for the seriousness to weigh you down. Also, my guess is, composite Juno conjunct Chiron and Uranus right on the DSC hint at some pain and upheavals if you are together for a long time. But perhaps the opposite is also true, that there is healing in togetherness, and excitement and brilliance.

Your moon is conjunct that composite Juno-Chiron so maybe that means your honest reactions will determine how that conjunction plays out.

The composite moon is conjunct your sun-ASC in Cancer so that probably generates a lot of warmth ~ you feel like you are shining here, understood and respected. 

His IC-SN is conjunct your Juno...composite chart ruler Venus is in the SN in the 12th house. These seem like indications of a past life together? With Saturn on your NN it's like you were destined to have to deal with Saturn figures again, Saturnine issues. 

Fascinating astrology here, best of luck to you both, please keep us posted.

Thank you so much for your input; I always love your interpretations, your point of view is always different from mine, you make me see things I would have not seen otherwise
The Saturn conj ic might reflect the Venus conj Saturn in synastry: he made quite literally clear from the very first second that it is a serious thing for him

Also, yes that Juno Chiron thing could indicate his life-threatening job and that sometimes we would be having a long distance relationship

I love your interpretation re the composite moon- it’s also on his Venus so I think he will feel very loved

Of course I will keep you posted: it’s an interesting synastry & Composite with an interesting background- worth a lot astrologically speaking