AvaI`ve been having a look at the year 2015, because this was when we started to interact more, including that first fanmeeting I attended. Curiously on the last concert, in the aftershow, i was reminded of that, when he must have handed over his plate, which was at least half full still, to the waiter, (just like I had done on that first fanmeeting), and he was still standing beside the waiter, and for some reason that got my attention, I looked over at that plate, couldn`t suppress a smile and was half tempted to call over something. lol I didn´t but, when looking over, I caught a half-glance of P, too, an eyecontact, but not a very direct one, more tentative and sideways, but I got the feeling that he, too, must have remembered that incidence from some years ago. Well it was just a short moment with nothing said, as I was refocusing on my chat, and he was getting involved with a chat with some other people. But anyway, so that summer of 2015, we did have some encounters that were decidedly more direct than our vague ones before. (not as direct as today of course)
And also in november that year he got married to the mother of his children, who was pregnant again. this was just one month before the new Solar Return started, but unlike other astrologers, I feel that the Solar return is valid until the next one starts with the Sun-transit to the natal Sun, not 3 months before or something.
Anyway I am cherrypicking of course just wanting to point out what got my attention.
First of all the fact that his SR ASC was on 27 Virgo conjunct his natal DESC on 25 Virgo and natal Saturn on 26 Virgo, and he got married with a transiting Venus-Mars-conjunction on about 25-27 Virgo.
his SR IC was on 26 Sag, which means that his natal Sun-Moon fell there, which seems fitting with creating a new home, but then there was my Sun and Mercury, too, esp. Sun in partile conjunction to his SR IC.
What really blew my mind however was this:
he had the asteroid of his wife`s name, M, on 17 Aries, EXACT conjunct her natal Mercury, Venus and HIS name in her chart, all on 17 Aries!
And all of this was conjunct his SR SN on 16 Aries. So basically her natal Mercury and Venus were conjunct his SR SN
he does not have anything on 17 degrees Libra-Aries in his natal himself, except the Mars/Uranus and Jupiter/Uranus-mp, however that year he was having solar arc Mars on 17 Libra, just being 13 minutes separating from the opposition to his wife`s natal Venus, which means it must have peaked about 2-3 months prior (did I mention she was 3 months pregnant when they got married? LOL)
Also their progressed composite Venus-Mars-trine was applying to its peak, with pr c- Venus on 23°09 Pisces (on his n Pholuls exact) and pr c-Mars on 23°23 Cancer. This peaked about 4-6 weeks after their second son was being born.
And as I mentioned their marriage chart has a transiting Venus-Mars-conjunction with just abit more than one degree orb.
So I guess, except for the children, it`s not hard to imagine what the selling point was. LOL (though the opposition might not have been only nice, it is still an opposition after all).
Anyway so and his SR SN was on her natal Venus, too (and Mercury and his name),and her SR name on his SR SN as well - well they certianly had known each other for a bit. lol
Also the SR was coming for him with SR Juno on 17 Leo, in that perfect trine to her name in his SR chart, on this natal Venus of hers.
Since our birthdays are just one day apart, we have the same Solar Returns, except the Moon position and of course the angles differ a little (albeit not as much as one would think, this year they are only 3-4 degrees apart).
Anyway so in my SR there was Juno on 17 Leo, too, and that is conjunct M`s name in my natal chart on 17 Leo exact.
Also we actually had a Grand cross from his SR to my natal (because his Moon was part of it).
his SR Juno 17 Leo
his SR Moon 17 Scorpio (near his wife`s natal SN btw, on 18 Scorpio)
my natal name 17 Taurus
her name in my natal 17 Leo
my Moon 17 Aquarius
(and my Atropos 19 Aquarius)
Well it is clear to see how she fared much better that year with her Mercury-Venus on his SN and trine his SR Juno. lol
and possibly with his SR Moon on her natal SN, too, though it is interesting, those are south nodal links, like wrapping something up, completing something, something from the past, but of course those are strong links.
As for me, well I had to laugh a little but my name in his SR was on 25 Pisces, exact conjunct his natal ASC (interestingly my progressed name in his chart is slowly progressing there as well, it will enter 23 Pisces this year, the exact degree of his natal Pholus, for whatever that means, and then eventually cross his horizon over the ASC. I guess this might be interesting, transitioning from his 12t house over into his 1st. Well that won`t be happening until in 6 years or so, but still interesting. Also for the last weekend we saw each other, my pr name was actually exactly conjunct his daily progressed DESC. lol)
Anyway back then my name in his SR was in his 6th house - fitting! - but was applying to conjunct the SR DESC within 2 degrees. Actually that means that their wedding days transiting Venus-Mars-conjunction was pretty exactly opposing my name in his SR on his SR DESC and n ASC. I guess there couldn`t have been a worse time for him, for me to show up in his life. lol
There was probably more to mention, but found that pretty intriguing. Of course my SR name was also opposed by his Saturn by 1 degree, there you go. LOL
