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Post by Ava on May 2, 2019 15:04:22 GMT
I take offense with the term "cherry-pick", as it seems very passive-aggressive and defensive to me and accusing me of using arbitrary methods just to fit my taste. Doesn`t make me feel inclined to continue that communication in any way. No offense intended I like cherries so it doesn't have much of a negative connotation to me.
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Post by Ava on May 2, 2019 15:12:20 GMT
For the ones I have a clear "first meeting", I feel like that energy does persist for a while (setting the tone), until it's offset by something else. However, it's hard for me to tell where it's coming from (synastry, EVC, transits, progressions or some combination of all that). Same Well perhaps for each person the "first meeting" was something different. And the reason one person might remember the encounter while the other does not is because that first meeting's astrological framework is more profound for them personally, at that time. But again for those of us who are talking about classmates or people we knew in our youth, pretty hard to ever be confident we're using the right time for first meeting. Very easy for me to know when I first met my husband, that was a meeting. I'd never seen him before, but we shook hands and were introduced. With my college boyfriend, he went by the narrative that it was "love at first sight" with me, and he approached me to say hello but apparently I thought he was joking or mistaking me for someone else, because I just gave him a blank stare and walked off. LOL And he approached me several times to meet the same fate. Well I thought he was good looking so it made no sense to me at all, why anyone who looked like that would talk to me. It gets more complex but I think lumina is not enjoying the conversation, so I will leave it alone.
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Post by lumina on May 2, 2019 15:24:40 GMT
I take offense with the term "cherry-pick", as it seems very passive-aggressive and defensive to me and accusing me of using arbitrary methods just to fit my taste. Doesn`t make me feel inclined to continue that communication in any way. No offense intended I like cherries so it doesn't have much of a negative connotation to me. ok. noted
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Post by lumina on May 2, 2019 15:28:16 GMT
Ava well to be honest no, I am not enjoying the conversation, but that doesn`t really matter. My nerves are frazzled anyway, and well I am not too attached to the first meeting thing anyway, as I said I prioritize the composite. But still we probably simply have different opinions when it comes to that, and to me it does not really make sense to talk about meeting charts when we do not even agree on the definition what a meeting is, so that conversation to me just is not looking too fruitful. And we have so much other things to discuss that I enjoy more, but of course just keep on talking about that, as I think the two of you are closer in opinion to each other in this instance, and I will just step out and leave you to it and pester you with other stuff.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on May 2, 2019 15:50:31 GMT
Same Well perhaps for each person the "first meeting" was something different. And the reason one person might remember the encounter while the other does not is because that first meeting's astrological framework is more profound for them personally, at that time. But again for those of us who are talking about classmates or people we knew in our youth, pretty hard to ever be confident we're using the right time for first meeting. Yes to both... It's crazy about that college boyfriend - clearly a case of one person being more affected than the other. I wonder what his EVC with that first meeting would look like! (Well, first meeting from his PoV...).
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Post by Ava on May 3, 2019 1:31:33 GMT
I wonder what his EVC with that first meeting would look like! (Well, first meeting from his PoV...). Thanks for your interest... Nothing really stands out for his EVC with the outer planets in that approximate time frame. EVC Jupiter @ 18 Cap, so that may have been on my sun if he had noticed me in the middle of the semester. EVC Neptune trine his sun. Best I can remember, I formally met him in early December, after he finally called and asked me to meet him at the diner that night. Yeah, sudden. Come to think of it, though it's not partile, the Venus-Uranus conjunction there is probably telling. I have Venus in exact aspect to Uranus natally. Pr comp for that date w/ transits: Tr Saturn got cut off, that's @ 6 Pisces. Tr Mars on his natal Leo sun-Mercury squaring tr Jupiter-Pluto @ 28 Scorpio. Wow I had resolved about five minutes into the meeting to never see him again. But tr sun conjunct that pr comp Neptune...oh we were so Neptunian. edit
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Post by 12YearsABlob on May 3, 2019 3:49:58 GMT
Thanks for posting that! While I was reading the story, I thought Venus-Uranus with some Saturn throwing a wrench in there. Only the Venus-Uranus part is true - but good enough for me, lol. And that progressed composite mercury-NN (helped along by Jupiter and Mars) is also being triggered by tr Jupiter-Pluto. Pr comp Mars might be on your Asc? Maybe you agreed to go out because of the moon, that 5-6° Virgo seems to show up often for you. Perhaps at the time, it gave you a soft spot for him and you yielded? Just speculating... Interesting stuff, though - his Sun-Merc were clearly involved and that probably set the whole thing off...
:ETA: Isn't your Saturn squaring that Venus-Uranus? IME, Saturn decides pretty quick whether it wants to be involved or not. If not, it's decidedly NO. Haha..
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Post by Ava on May 3, 2019 12:45:02 GMT
Thank you kindly 12YearsABlob - you're like a magnet, picking up all the meanings that escaped my notice. I agree with you, my Saturn squaring that Venus-Uranus is an apt picture of my resistance to what was going on. Pr comp Mars on my rectified ASC, correct. >> edit Thanks for remembering that I gravitate to 5-6° Virgo. Your memory is uncanny, and I value your opinions very much. Tr Saturn was opposing that moon. Tr Saturn in Pisces was "bad news bears" for me. Almost as bad as Saturn in Aries. I'll stop complaining now because I can just list all the hard times from Saturn in every sign if I think of it.
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