synastry with an aquaintance

[lumina]

Well for a change NOT a romantic synastry. However at one of Lancelot`s concerts in march a woman was approaching me, I had just very briefly exchanged a message and explained something about the workshops to her, and since last month we`ve gotten into basically constant communication, mostly about the show-circus (P, lancelot etc.). 

I thought it was unusual, because of the frequency of communication, pretty much out of nothing. I am actually not really that great in making aquaintances. lol 

Nevertheless, I was today thinking of checking our synastry, also cause I have been pretty open about past experiences/ encounters with P with her, and we BOTH already wondered about that, but I just had the feeling she wouldn`t talk about it in wider circles and she is trustworthy. No clue why I thought that, but I took that risk. (not that much of a risk, cause actually I do not have anything to keep secret, in the most case if any of that leaked out, I would feel a bit embarassed, but that`s all.). 

Anyway, I even told her about my first meeting with P (because unlike other people she asked about it and seemed interested. lol), which also means I had to mention the astrology-thing (something I do NOT talk about in this social circle usually. I mean if P remembers our meeting, which I hope he does NOT, then he might know it, and she knows it. Noone else does. lol)

This aquaintance did tell me her birthtime just now (without me really prompting for it. lol But hey if you have a 2:34 birthtime, that is just as odd as my 7:07 one. ). 


So this is our synastry, with her in the outer ring, and all her angles are actually correct. 


What is your impression? 





delete bitly account

[FruityLlama]

Well first of all your 1st houses are very similar in terms of planetary influences; Jupiter, Mercury and Mars. Even though these bundles are squared, you have similar approaches and ways of looking at things, so that might account for the dialogue about P and trust.

Your 1st house in her 4th- supports the above

Her moon in your 11th, supports the above and friendly connection, especially about confiding in each other about things you wouldnt with others from or within a group.

Your CR on her DSC= resonance with each other and ideas of partnership??

Moon-Vertex?

I'll have to keep coming back to this- the above are just notes but i hope that sort of helps!

[lumina]

Thanks.

Yes, interesting about the Virgo-planets. Funny enough my new headmaster has a Stellium at the end of Virgo and squaring my Sun-Mercury, yet we have been getting along well so far. I do suspect however that my pr Moon on 25 Virgo might contribute to that currently. (it is in partile applying conjunction to his Sun at the moment).


In this synastry here I like her luminaries in my 11th house.

And yes my Jupiter, cr, on her DESC, and P`s Mars-Jupiter-conjunction is on her ASC. LOL

[FruityLlama]

I'm not sure what else to add at the moment, are you and her both fans/friends of P then? I see mostly shared interests being the theme of this synastry rather than something like rivalry would be more of a 7th house thing. That's totally unrelated I know but I was thinking of different themes within friendship synastry today, probably because I had looked at this thread to see if I could add anything haha

I've found when women put their sun in my 7th, its great but also slightly competitive somehow. Not sure if that is the same for CR, but I am guessing not by what you have already said. 11th house synastry is definitely fab though!

I'm still wondering about Moon-Vx and if that means anything different from what is already written. I think it must just be holding up that theme of spontaneous confidence and resonating with each other in some way.

[lumina]

@fruity/Llama

she approached me after a concert of Lancelot actually. Before we had a short online conversation, but about P and his workshop, as I was explaining to her that he does not bite. lol Well sometimes he does, but not without a reason.

We seem to have similiar approaches to the whole circus, though she is more reserved/ shy than me, or thinking that noone would even care about if or what she has to say to something. I was the same a few years ago, though that changed. I still think noone really cares about what I have to say to something, but that does not prevent me from saying it nevertheless. I guess I have become a bit more forward in communication and risking to embarass myself or say silly stuff and try to not care TOO much about it (sometimes I get paranoid though. lol). But I understand where she comes from, and I am like that some of the times still. especially in personal contact I am more reserved, though not always. It depends which Ceri`s turn it is to come out to play or observe.

I don`t sense any rivalry though, unlike other women there she does not exude that groupie/bitchy-vibe. Funny enough we have both encountered the same women acting in that strange way, ultra posessive of P, actually I heard some women refer to him as "Their P" in fact. Like on the last workshop, and I couldn`t stop myself from mumbling something like "if at all he would be his wife`s P, wouldn?t he?" (unfortunately or not who knows? P overheard me mumbling that to my neighbour, he looked like he could hardly keep a straight face for some moments after that. lol)


But so, neither of us is really within this circle, I`ve always been my own circle (though in a weird way I participate on some of the other circles from the outside through another aquaintance, so I am getting some information I did not get before) but i am not really in any of those social circles, though I am communicating with pretty much everybody nowadays, be it fan or friend or the actors themselves and in some instances even with the family, though mostly I am not even aware if I do. LOL

I guess I am just broadly communicative at the moment, not limited to P, or any certain fan/ aquaintance, but just taking the chances in communication as they present themselves. Maybe I need to get a better control of that again, not that I accidentally communicate too much. lol


But back to that particular aquaintance, I do like that my Moon on her Vertex is at the same time trine her Mercury. That`s nice. (though I can see of course too that my Saturn squares her Mercury)

We`ve been talking over several actors and while we appreciate them we do not drool about any of them, and get totally silly like so many of the women there, where I am jsut standing aside and think: "What the heck? They are just people!"

[FruityLlama]

Perhaps you are both meant to help and support each others' modes of self expression and feelings of self worth then as Mercury is certainly an apt theme and aspecting really nicely. moon-vx obviously has some sort of fatedness feel to it, and that conjunction is in your 2nd house! And your vx in her 11th.

Just thinking also about Jupiter-DSC= amplifying ways of relating?