Post by Ava on Feb 13, 2021 10:18:56 GMT
Sun square Pluto in synastry can create a profound impact, they are tightly bonded together by a feeling of fate. If these two break up, it will be very difficult to continue on as friends. This relationship has a profound impact on both lives. They find each other completely fascinating, absorbing, and even hypnotic. It can be hard to explain why they feel so compelled, but they are drawn to each other in ways that can be hard to decipher. Pluto in partnership can also make the other person feel as if they are the only person who exists. There is such a strong deep expression that it can sometimes feel overpowering. All the passion and immense intensity can make the couple tightly bound to one another, as if in their own underworld. However, one partner (usually Pluto) can feel threatened by displays of independence, individuality, and autonomy. One person in this couple, may try and control the other’s expression and possesses powerful insights into all of their strength and abilities, but also weak spots.
The basic feeling in this relationship is deep, and this connection may seem far-reaching, there can be times when things get heated up. An issue between them suddenly takes on full exposure, and it can be dangerous, resulting in some explosive moments. The couple can feel immense anxiety at times when not with each other, fearing some colossal loss, but this should not be an excuse for controlling behavior. The union tends to draw out each other’s shadowy selves, and the wills battle it out for supremacy. There is an uncontrollable quality that can be scary, and exhausting as well. The relationship can be incredibly close and it will feel like one of the most momentous in life. Pluto always functions in a relationship at a very profound level. There is, without question, nothing shallow about its action. Even when this duo is not trying to transform each other, they will. The transformations will be felt from the innermost depths to the outermost reaches of their lives.
The challenge of Sun square Pluto in synastry is to maintain an equal relationship, and there can be issues of privacy. Dwelling on past hurts and resentment will fester like poison, so the couple will periodically need to release feelings. Through such a powerful attraction one partner can have trouble trusting themselves around the other; they feel overwhelmed with the intensity of feeling. When such emotion is felt to the core, it can lead to a retreat into protection. Overall, this is a powerful and magnetic pairing and great things can be accomplished when working together, showing the true power of a Pluto relationship.
theastrologyplacemembership.com/2015/09/sun-square-pluto-synastry/
The basic feeling in this relationship is deep, and this connection may seem far-reaching, there can be times when things get heated up. An issue between them suddenly takes on full exposure, and it can be dangerous, resulting in some explosive moments. The couple can feel immense anxiety at times when not with each other, fearing some colossal loss, but this should not be an excuse for controlling behavior. The union tends to draw out each other’s shadowy selves, and the wills battle it out for supremacy. There is an uncontrollable quality that can be scary, and exhausting as well. The relationship can be incredibly close and it will feel like one of the most momentous in life. Pluto always functions in a relationship at a very profound level. There is, without question, nothing shallow about its action. Even when this duo is not trying to transform each other, they will. The transformations will be felt from the innermost depths to the outermost reaches of their lives.
The challenge of Sun square Pluto in synastry is to maintain an equal relationship, and there can be issues of privacy. Dwelling on past hurts and resentment will fester like poison, so the couple will periodically need to release feelings. Through such a powerful attraction one partner can have trouble trusting themselves around the other; they feel overwhelmed with the intensity of feeling. When such emotion is felt to the core, it can lead to a retreat into protection. Overall, this is a powerful and magnetic pairing and great things can be accomplished when working together, showing the true power of a Pluto relationship.
theastrologyplacemembership.com/2015/09/sun-square-pluto-synastry/
Notes
* "Hard transformation"
* Pluto synastry is the moth-to-the-flame category
* Pluto = our darkness, controlling nature, insecurities, fears / sun = identity, creating thrust
So when we have Pluto square the sun within 5 or so degrees, the Pluto person can very much want to control or dominate the sun person, because there's a fear involved, an insecurity. Pluto can also represent our resentments.
So there is a striking of the Pluto person, when they meet the sun person...Pluto has an urge to take control of the sun person, their location, whereabouts. Sometimes an age difference (Pluto is older).
* Both undergo an actual, potential type of breakdown, if they engage in a relationship is ongoing. Breakdown preceeds breakthrough. Pluto brings a lot of psychology out of Pandora's box of both partners. Can lead to a breakdown of the ego structure of the sun person. Pluto causes both people to "puke up" a lot of their past, so there is a great opportunity for change and transformation.
* Soulmate aspect
* The Pluto person is a tremendous teacher to the sun, even though it causes difficulties (growth through pain and crisis)..."it's almost like these people go through a war together."
* Most of the time, the really difficult parts of it are cut off. The people don't go through with all of it because a certain amount of hostility or enmity is there..."it can pre-empt the most potent aspects of this relationship." That's different if one of the people have a sensitive sun (water sun, Neptune contact); you can push these people farther. If the person has a sensitive sun, you can see this being expressed to the fullest extent.
At the end, around 11:50, she said when a relationship is formed, the Pluto person "can start to play their games."
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Adding more links as I find them:
crystallifecoach.wordpress.com/2015/09/28/sun-and-pluto-in-love-synastry-sign-codependency-or-intense-bliss/
