Sun conjunct moon synastry

[Ava]

In your experience, is this all it's cracked up to be?

You all may be familiar with this information already, it's "old hat" knowledge...

The conjunction of the Sun and the Moon in synastry is a powerful connection. How it plays out will have much to do with the condition of these luminaries in the individual charts. Attraction to one another is usually there regardless, perhaps felt most by the Moon person initially. As a relationship develops between the two, a dynamic inevitably emerges in which the Moon person plays a supportive role (sometimes a dependent or submissive role) to the Sun person, who tends to lead the relationship in some manner.

A note should be made about gender and whose Moon and whose Sun is involved. Although both ways is powerful, in some cases when the man’s Moon conjuncts the woman’s Sun, problems arise. This happens when the man feels uncomfortable in his role as the moody, sympathetic, and somewhat dependent Moon — a role that he might assign to women. In this day and age, however, either male or female playing the role of the Moon to the Sun may feel some kind of resentment over time. Just as the Moon reflects the Sun’s light, the Moon person is naturally inclined to play a supportive and sometimes submissive role to the Sun. It doesn’t need to be submissive–instead, it can be considered supportive. How comfortable the Moon person is with this role is critical. In the same vein, the Sun person’s comfort levels with playing the role of the Sun should be considered as well. Not everyone wants to be the leader in a relationship!

With the conjunction, sextile, and trine, the Moon person generally comes to rely upon and trust the Sun person’s wisdom, spirit, and personal style. The Sun person, in turn, depends upon the support of the Moon person.

cafeastrology.com/synastry/sun_moon_aspects.html

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Notes:

- This is a really great aspect. There is a real agreement. Their style of emotional expression matches. The moon feels that the sun says what they are thinking. The moon feels it, the moon shows it. The moon feels that the sun is responsive to their emotional needs. 

- The sun likes the emotional responses of the moon and views them as "correct." They see them as appropriate. Their habits match up well so they agree. The sun comes to very much appreciate the responses/expectations of the moon, and vice versa. 

- Communication is oftentimes not as needed because they are on the same page

[lumina]

I prefer someone else's moon on my sun

[Ava]

Hmm, but you do enjoy Aqua suns on your moon...if not, just keep sending me pics of that one guy, it won't go to waste on *me.*

I just realized, perhaps one reason I've never gelled with Pisces men in my age group is, we invariably will have Aqua sun square Uranus (more or less) in the composite chart.

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Cap moon conjunct my sun, I really can only think of my sons, and the way they are kind of similar to me. The son whose moon is closer can anticipate what I will say and he says it for me.

Sadly I have no romantic anecdotes with either someone's sun on my moon or vice versa; I've never experienced this in a dating scenario or relationship.

Pls don't quote

[12YearsABlob]

^ Kind of the same for me.. Like the opposition, this one doesn't work for me in the literal sense (i.e. tropical Sun in the sign of my moon, or close to it's degree).

[enneline]

Sun conj moon can be indeed powerful, really. I have really often see it in charts of married couples and/or couples who refer to themselves as "soulmates"

even if the rest of the chart doesn't scream for a relationship: people with that aspect get along, like always