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Post by asterova on Jan 5, 2020 18:08:11 GMT
Which inner planet would you rather be and why? This is about all kinds of relationships.
Moon opposite/square Pluto
Venus opposite/square Pluto
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Jan 5, 2020 22:09:34 GMT
I guess it depends on how strong each of those three planets are, and which one (Moon or Venus) can "hold their own" in the presence of Pluto.
Since you specified oppositions and squares...
:edit: Depends on the day, actually. Being Venus might be more fun, for a while at least.
What about you?
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Post by Ava on Jan 6, 2020 0:07:50 GMT
I guess it depends on how strong each of those three planets are, and which one (Moon or Venus) can "hold their own" in the presence of Pluto. Good point! It reminds me that sometimes I have more emotional energy available than at other times....if I'm generally feeling stabilized, my Venus square their Pluto can be invigorating, intriguing...like alcohol, a bit toxic, but worth it. But if I'm already stressed about something else, I don't need the headaches and spookiness. |
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Post by Ava on Jan 6, 2020 1:01:44 GMT
Dealing with my coworker whose Uranus-Pluto in Virgo opposes my Pisces moon, I'm actually often singing this to myself after one of our mini battles:
No more poison killing my emotion...
In this case, I feel like he engages in preemptive nit-picky attacks, running his "feel bad NOW" commands, and my reactions are basically threefold, according to my aspects with that Uranus-Pluto:
1) Feel bad, receive the blow without any defense (Pisces moon)
2) Straighten up and COUNTER attack in a very specific and straightforward way (Cap sun)
3) Act lighthearted, as if that just rolled right off my back (Gemini Mars)
Typically I say that I'm not passive-aggressive, but either passive OR aggressive, but in this case...yeah, Virgo Pluto can draw passive-aggressiveness out of me. And I dislike being this way.
So, for now, speaking from my place of immersion in a problematic work relationship, my vote goes to Venus-Pluto hard aspects in synastry, rather than moon-Pluto.
Pls don't quote, I know posting a song is going overboard, tr sun is squaring my Jupiter though. #PerfectExcuse
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Post by asterova on Jan 7, 2020 23:50:48 GMT
It's ok. I like the song and it even sounds familiar. You deserve our sympathy, just one of these aspects is hard enough to deal with and you can't easily get rid of the guy.
I think I'd rather be the Moon. Venus-Pluto seems more physically threatening (potentially, of course). Ugliness such as rape, acid attacks, jealousy-driven assault/murder comes to my mind. I wouldn't want these aspects with envious/jealous of their partners women either. Besides, attempts at "monitoring" me, moulding me and getting my attention would be probably more extreme and I'm not here for this.
If I had to be the Moon...It's no fun to have someone try to mess with my head or verbally abuse me (hopefully not worse), but as long as skillful lying isn't involved, I should be able to defeat Pluto if things get ugly.
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Post by Ava on Jan 8, 2020 2:38:27 GMT
you can't easily get rid of the guy. Fortunately I can, I'm quitting. Interesting thoughts there. Well Pluto around 12° opposes my moon *and* squares my Venus. Apart from my childhood, growing up with my siblings born in the 60s, I have never spent much time with Virgo Pluto folks, in person. Unless they were teachers or other people I wasn't going to date (ie, older female friends and their husbands). |
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Post by asterova on Jan 8, 2020 12:35:03 GMT
Congrats...? But I hope it's not just because of him.
Moon AND Venus? Run! I wonder how often those friends feel or used to feel jealous because of you.
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