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Post by 12YearsABlob on Feb 14, 2018 2:31:18 GMT
Btw, why would the moon in partile aligment to Jupiter make it go awry? Or do you mean, only when the moons aren't in sync?
P.S. That video is so cute!
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Post by anela on Feb 14, 2018 4:36:28 GMT
Awww....where'd everybody go? Pancakes for pancake day, watching a TV show (Imposters) and then Blade Runner - except this movie is just too slow. I've checked out of it several times, and am glad we didn't pay to see it in the theatre... unless it would have held my attention there, because I couldn't be checking my phone or anything else. My computer also keeps freezing up. I finally managed to exit out of several things to get it working again.
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Post by Ava on Feb 14, 2018 5:00:05 GMT
^ That sounds fun anela. Sometimes I miss having a television playing in the house...it livens things up. I'll probably eventually get one again. 12YearsABlobI love that gif!! "No no, I wanna hear what you were originally saying..." I love your thoroughness, and thanks for your interest. But here it's just boring, what I was saying. I said that the readings for Pisces moon call it romantic, but I don't know why that would be the case. Imaginative and delusional maybe. But romantic is something different, isn't it? I think it's more like roses and candlelight and surprises and everything fun and beautiful on the surface. Most people like that stuff...I did, too. But I don't think I was ever particularly swayed by it. That just doesn't feel like my language, I figured if you have a real connection you don't need much else on top of that. It's just semantics I guess. "Btw, why would the moon in partile aligment to Jupiter make it go awry?" Oh I was just throwing words together carelessly but as I said Venus would go up in flames...I was thinking of flames of passion...not "burnout."
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Post by anela on Feb 14, 2018 5:24:47 GMT
Me, too. Presents can be nice. I've only received flowers once (from my dad, when I was upset a couple of years ago), and everyone brought me home a rose from a dinner I didn't attend, where all of the women got a red rose. I liked that, but actions and intentions mean more to me than presents, or a show.
I wouldn't mind doing something big and glamorous/fun, though.
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Post by lumina on Feb 14, 2018 6:40:33 GMT
I think romantic might be something different for different people. I could imagine the Pisces-placements being thought of romantic because of their ability to delve into imagination, fantasy, dreams, which *can* be a part of romance and for many people is. Not for a Capricorn of course. Romantic in a relationship-sense I wouldn`t really associate with Pisces Moon, but more so with Pisces-Venus and/or Mars.
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Post by Ava on Feb 14, 2018 14:17:50 GMT
lumina "Romantic in a relationship-sense I wouldn`t really associate with Pisces Moon, but more so with Pisces-Venus and/or Mars." You see it, too? Hard to pinpoint. The Pisces moons I know are sympathetic, slightly weepy, devoted people...we're all in long-term relationships. With all except one, they are ODD pairings, almost a case of Pisces moon yielding to the claiming force of someone else. Like one of my best friends from high school was always straight, but married a woman. My friend had nothing to do with initiating that, because she was straight when they met. My Pisces moon brother's wife is........an odd person. Anyone who's starred on Animal Hoarder, they are a little extreme. Anyway, a common viewpoint in astrology is, there is a tendency for this moon to fall into dysfunctional relationships and stay there, which isn't romantic at all, but usually rooted in a need to serve, and confusion about how to leave. That's kind of the opposite of romantic. Even celebrity Pisces moons talk about falling into that slump...Garth Brooks said of his second marriage, "I didn't know life could be this way." Happy, he meant. And maybe that's partly our fault, because amongst other potential issues, there's that tendency to zone out and become nothing, instead of facing the music and actively working on the relationship issues. I love this article and posted it in my now-missing OP: Pisces Moon: Kill Me, What do I Care?
LOL I don't mean to make any solid judgments here, I know everyone's different, but this was my loose train of thought when I started the thread. My Venus-Neptune, that's romantic I think....that is probably the part of me that's conjuring up music and sparkles and a whirlwind of feeling over minor, MINOR events, like the disheveled gas station attendant speaking to me with that beautiful voice. (Well Sagittarius tends to blow things out of proportion, at least according to others' opinion, but you and I know the real importance of details, don't we, lumina?) Pisces moon plays into that, possibly seeing more into the heart of things and responding on a deeper level, or attempting to....but it's also such a fundamental hermit energy, it mixes a dose of "I don't really want to get involved" into everything. Sorry if I'm overtalking this and focused too much on myself. Well an eclipse is coming, I'm sure that justifies excess of all kinds.
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Post by anela on Feb 14, 2018 19:51:31 GMT
My sister's marriage was unhealthy in the past. I don't know if it's considered healthy now. She regaled me with insults again in November, but her life isn't normal either. She's a 12th house Pisces Moon. I think she chose him partly because he didn't want her to improve social-anxiety-wise. Anyone else might have had social expectations, possible job expectations. She lives on disability, as does he - he's much older than she is. It sounded like she did most of the housework, laundry, cooking, etc. Their home is a flat in an old building, that has all kinds of problems, they've had problems with neighbors and the landlord, but he hasn't done a thing to move them to a better place. My sister thought with his eyesight trouble now, they were in the running to move to a better place, like council housing up there. She didn't say anything more about it, so I wonder if it worked out.
He was a Pisces Moon, too, I think. Venus in Aries.
I think my Pisces Mars can be romantic, but I don't like "dopey" at least if I'm not interested. I go from flattered to pissed off, especially since if women acted the same way over a man, they would hear about it. Movies make out that men who keep on pressuring someone to give them a chance, will get what they want eventually. I don't like any kind of pressure, and if I did the same to a man, I would be seen as insane, or at the very least a "stage five clinger".
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Post by vds on Feb 14, 2018 21:25:23 GMT
vds , Omg, I love that signature too! Thanks for joining AstroGarden. Do you, by any chance, have 12muddy or Aries23Degrees' contact info? I miss those guys. Wish they could join us at AG too. I don't! If they are still at LL, and/or moderators,maybe there's a way?
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Post by anela on Feb 15, 2018 3:45:37 GMT
I think what really put me off, was how an engaged woman was prized over anyone else (me, a single woman). I wasn't afforded any privacy, any respect, nothing, and she wasn't held accountable for anything, because she was engaged, and you're expected to lose your mind on anyone who doesn't want to be around your spouse or SO. Never mind that you have good reason for it. Once that engagement ring appears, nothing else matters.
I was just reminded of how my sister congratulated me on still being single, five years ago, with a nasty grin on her face. She said something else that I can't recall, too, but her intention was to twist the knife, the night before Valentine's Day. I was called old, ugly, fat, told to take hormone pills (when I was 36, on - 36! the intention once again, to make me feel old and undesirable). Living with that shit, day in and day out. She drove me crazy. And then I kept running into men my age who "preferred someone younger". Gits. It wasn't just me, they didn't want to date anyone their own age. I was expected to deal with men ten or twenty years older.
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Post by geminiblues on Feb 15, 2018 14:42:16 GMT
Faith,
No time for a proper response, but, yes... You don't see your own moon as romantic, you see your Venus (and probably Mars) as romantic. Others with Venus or Mars in Pisces would see your moon as sweet and romantic when you weren't trying to be, just being you.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2018 14:54:22 GMT
To piggyback off of what geminiblues is saying, whenever someone shares the same moon sign as me, that's a surefire way to assure we're going to be friends, not romantic partners. Maybe it's because we know the ins and outs of our own moons so well that their emotional landscape lacks mystery, becomes dull, and maybe even irritates us because we can suddenly see our own behavior so clearly in them. I know I feel disturbed whenever I see myself reflected in another Aqua moon exhibiting self-destructive behavior (that maybe another moon sign would find thrilling and not relatable).
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Post by Ava on Feb 15, 2018 19:00:53 GMT
Faith, No time for a proper response, but, yes... You don't see your own moon as romantic, you see your Venus (and probably Mars) as romantic. Others with Venus or Mars in Pisces would see your moon as sweet and romantic when you weren't trying to be, just being you. Ahh, good point. If others see me as romantic, they're entitled to their opinion...
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Post by Ava on Feb 15, 2018 19:07:23 GMT
Movies make out that men who keep on pressuring someone to give them a chance, will get what they want eventually. I don't like any kind of pressure, and if I did the same to a man, I would be seen as insane, or at the very least a "stage five clinger". Hahahah That's so true isn't it? I guess it's assumed that men are usually only pressuring women for sex, while women pressure men for more (long-term commitment). Re: your sister, I honestly feel bad for anyone with Pisces ASC, Pisces moon in the 12th. I can barely handle my own Pisces energy and that would triple the effect. However, the way you describe her behavior, it's fully toxic. No excuse.
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Post by Ava on Feb 15, 2018 19:15:44 GMT
athenaThat's interesting, I wonder if other people have the same experience? Moon in the same sign = more platonic? When I think of the hallmarks of a Pisces moon, that doesn't match what I'm typically attracted to...on the other hand, I haven't known many guys with that moon.
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Post by lumina on Feb 15, 2018 19:45:18 GMT
Ava for me this is true. Not that I know many men with an Aquarius Moon, but well my friend`s husband has his Moon conjunct mine, and while we have had a thorough understanding of each other, there was never any kind of romantic attraction (that was even before he met my friend). In fact that is true for most Aquarius-planets, including Sun, good for friendship, but not attracted to them. But my Moon is not a very strong relationship significator in my chart anyway, that might be the reason, too.
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Post by vds on Feb 15, 2018 19:47:18 GMT
Ceri?
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Post by lumina on Feb 15, 2018 20:41:27 GMT
Yes?
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Post by vds on Feb 15, 2018 20:45:35 GMT
Yes? HELLO
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Post by lumina on Feb 15, 2018 20:52:44 GMT
Hello, it took you long enough to find here! But I am glad you did. Welcome!
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Post by vds on Feb 15, 2018 22:05:21 GMT
Hello, it took you long enough to find here! But I am glad you did. Welcome! I read mail from LeeLoo dated from Feb 2017 few days ago 😅😅 As soon as she replied and I read her mail, this time right away, I came here. 😁 How are you? Where's that singer of yours?
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