Venus quirks

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That’s great! I mean if you are not too Aries... say an Aries sun and Venus or honestly just Aries sun and libra sun in general lol

And the whole marrying the man of my dream is actually an exact quote of an Aries lol. But obviously your chart will varies

If you have Pluto or 8th House aspects then you’re gonna try to avoid attention so of course. I know an Aries sun moon with Leo rising and he likes to keep his life a secret.

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Back to topic, Venus in Leo can be equally about imaging as Aries/libra. But they can’t be ignored so there’s a pride factor. In general I hear Leo Venus brags about their relationship as this dream relationship, I’m in love with my best friend or whatever and 5 min later there’s a fight, they are hitting things and crying profusely .

Venus in sag can change their mind 180 in 5 seconds. It depends on the details that trigger them but once something happened that showed them this person is not the final “truth”, oh lol they drop more quickly than you can blink

[Violets]

My husband has Venus in Leo, but we both have 8th house Suns, Uranus on our IC/MC axis, and while I have Aqua Mercury/Dsc, he has Aqua Mars/NN. He's not such a stereotype ViL, but he is super thoughtful and appreciates very thoughtful, personal gestures.

[Violets]

FruityLlama, I can identify with having a thing for big, colorful jewelry, lol. And very bright colors. I normally wear quite a few silver rings with different types of stones in them, and a number of bangles. Since having children however, this has proven to be slightly impractical, heh.

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What might be for Gemini Venus?

[FruityLlama]

I know one Gem venus guy and he is stereotypical of a gem venus in that he loves intelligence esp. in a woman

[anela]

I like a man who is genuinely kind, and sociable. Gemini moon conjunct Venus. Smart is good. Thoughtfulness is huge, though.

I don't know how to flirt, unless I think a guy isn't serious. If someone hits on me, I either stare at them in shock, or try to get away from them. I'm just not prepared to deal with it. A guy seemed to be hitting on me on Saturday, and I was craning my neck, looking for my dad to rescue me.

Love books. Always have them with me when I leave the house. Not a great communicator, unless I'm feeling good. A friend offered to talk with me over the phone a week ago - one of my best LL friends - but I was too tired to even text. And I'm too shy to talk on the phone. Yet when she thought she was going to have major surgery up in Cleveland, and be away from everyone she knew, I offered to try to be there.

I like notebooks, pens, mugs. I'm an impulse shopper. I like small pieces of jewelery. No pierced ears, because I don't want to put holes in them. I love animals, and love to meet them when I'm out and about. I have dog and cat friends in Amish country.

I suppose a quirk would be that I wasn't interested in a cell phone, for years. I didn't want to be available twenty-four hours a day, getting out of the house meant getting away from the computer and the phone. I still don't like to use it much, aside from texting, or scrolling through Twitter.

If someone like my sister, shames me for getting emotional, I will defend it as normal, as I continue to sob. But I get embarrassed when I'm too open about things, especially when I'm upset or angry. I used to be so much better at holding things in - I liked my privacy. I still do.

[Ava]

I can relate to so much of what you said, anela . Maybe it's the fact that we're 6H suns, 8H moons. I talk a lot online, I'm sociable in person, and it masks the fact that I have very reclusive tendencies. Never had a cell phone, sent a text, had a FB...I never make phone calls. My best friend calls me, a few closer friends email and invite me places, and that's how I have a social life.

I feel horrible never initiating anything, but I feel like a ton of bricks as soon as I entertain the thought of it. It's gotten worse over the past few years as my progressed sun heads into Pisces, and Neptune sometimes moves into conjunction with my moon.

@theunknown

"Venus in sag can change their mind 180 in 5 seconds. It depends on the details that trigger them but once something happened that showed them this person is not the final “truth”, oh lol they drop more quickly than you can blink"

Yes

Though some of these guys, I never lost my attraction to them, I just realized they weren't exactly "relationship material" and if they weren't going to work on it, I definitely wasn't going to, either.

A little variation on the Sag Venus theme, mine's conjunct Neptune, conjunct the Neptune of most of the guys I dated, so there was seldom a clean break, everything lingered in a blurry state, where we sort of broke up (no conversation, just drifted apart), then the guy independently thought it over and reached a state of clarity about it, and came back to me on new terms, and I went along with it, but we ended up repeating the Neptune cycle.

[Violets]

anela and Ava, it's undoubtedly my entire chart that lends itself to this, but I can completely identify with not wanting to initiate get togethers and being kind of reclusive. I'm also talkative in person and online, but I prefer socializing with either random people, or people I know very well. Acquaintances aren't my cup of tea in person. I'm sure my Venus opposite Pluto (Pluto in 3rd) contributes to that, so I'm sort of on topic.

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Ava

I also noticed that sag Venus when they’re in love they’re in hard. They’ll move mountain for you.., and then they drop it off like nothing happened, which can be disconcerting... I’ve never dated a sag Venus tho thankfully

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Venus in Leo usually has great sense of style. Cheryl Cole for example. Lots of them, even if they have Virgo or cancer sun would have this royal style... you can’t miss it.

Venus in libra likes androgynous looks. You can see Jimmy Kimmel’s wife for a female example of thier aesthetics but the women also don’t tend to date muscularly men either

[FruityLlama]

I think Venus in Leo likes gaud as well, maybe it develops into something more classy later in life though. Cheryl Cole dressed awfully when she was younger, I think because she is quite attached to her roots so perhaps in combination with her cancer sun and mars, her dress sense manifested in whatever was the trend back then in Newcastle/the north in general (I am from similar area and us northerners like trackie bottoms...! I'd never wear them out though...she still likes performing in them, like sparkly trackie bottoms!)

I do often like ViL style though. Its usually pretty fun. Mike Todd comes to mind- he loved bling too didn't he and getting it for LizT. 

My father is a Sag venus. He doesnt fit the stereotypical description of Sag AT ALL and he has Sun conj. Venus. I don't get it. I know other Sag venuses who fit those descriptions much more but not Dad. Although I must say all the Sag venuses I know are in long term relationships so idk. Even the Sag sun, moon and venus guy I know although Ive noticed they don't really display their relationships that much. A couple of photos on instagram here and there for instance, or a sort of sly indication in conversation... although the pisces moon one is a little more open. This one puts photos of his gf/wife up all the time. All of the married ones don't wear wedding rings though (my dad doesn't because his finger swelled up a couple of days after the wedding or something, plus he doesn't like jewellery that much). Ive noticed with the younger ones, they will post pictures of themselves dressed as if theyre getting married but don't actually specify what theyre doing although it might be because theyre in small bands and are counting on female attention to get bigger...
Oh so I'm only talking about male sag venuses, it might be different for women though but I have not much experience with them.

I think when it comes to love, turning 180 can apply to anyone if you discover the other is not The One or true love or whatever it is you were looking for in the first place.

[Ava]

Nov 6, 2017 18:04:29 GMT @theunknown said:

 I’ve never dated a sag Venus tho thankfully 

LOL

[Ava]

Nov 7, 2017 14:22:21 GMT FruityLlama said:

Although I must say all the Sag venuses I know are in long term relationships so idk. 

Yeah in defense of Sag Venus, I've been with my husband over 19 years. 

My college boyfriend whom I mentioned above was Leo sun, Mercury, and Venus. With moon and Mars in Virgo, he actually had a conservative, clean-cut style. But he was a skater, liked alternative rock music, and incorporated some trends from that realm which were a tad gaudy, like he had both ears pierced and wore little silver hoop earrings, or sometimes he'd have a choker necklace. The really odd thing was, he used this essential oils scent stick that smelled feminine. His entire presentation was about 90% masculine, but I deduct masculinity points for the earrings and this perfume he wore. When he first started smelling that way I was laughing in disbelief, but he just stoutly said, "I like what I like." 

[Ava]

Okay I'll try Aqua Venus...it's odd because this is a fixed sign but very active, because you know, Uranus is always shifting things around.

And thinking about examples, it seems these people are interested in what their love interests DO, how they move about, the non-static aspects of them.

Two of my Cap friends with Aqua Venus...

- One met her boyfriend of 10+ years in some kind of urban frisbee league and one of the reasons she adores him is because he goes along with her environmental protest of cars, and he's willing to ride his bike alongside her and her bike, virtually everywhere they go.

- Another met her first husband "coon hunting" together. I think she delights in seeing the shock on people's faces when she talks about this really odd endeavor, this bizarre love story. He left her, and her next husband, well the two things she was most attracted to were his guitar-playing and artistry, making signs.

Once in a while she's had a wandering eye, and whoever knows her husband marvels that she can even stay married to him, so it's no sin to me, that she looks at other guys occasionally. And every guy that catches her interest does so according to his activities, like he's a cowboy, or directs the singalongs at a commune, or whatever.

My first Capricorn is a Cap with Aqua Venus conjunct Jupiter, we met when we were both running for our school's cross country teams.

So again, an Aqua Venus interested in the person's activities, first and foremost....

Maybe it's different for other sun signs with Aqua Venus, I haven't known many of them.

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FruityLlama
That’s funny I loveeeee her trackie bottoms lol


What I mean by turning 180 is that Venus innearth and water would still stick to someone for awhile until it’s over over lol. And I think I comment a lot on fire venuses because I’m perplexed by how fast they fall in and out of love and sometimes it’s over what an earth Venus would consider minutiae

As. Venus in 9th trine Jupiter conjunct Uranus/Neptune u still don’t drop ppl like that and I do have a 2 yrs rule for ppl I want to consider friends

[the89freespirit]

I guess a peculiar thing about Venus in Virgo people is how much we notice every little detail, including in people we're attracted to. Like, I can find someone's fingers really attractive (or not at all). A wrong detail or element can really turn us off. I've grimaced while reading certain web pages because I thought the font is hideous. In fact, I only like typing in one font: Tahoma and specifically at 10.5 (which is really a special font size I made I have to punch in). When I was writing papers in school, I would cringe when forced to type in Times New Roman. And at size 12? Ugh!