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Post by Violets on Jul 28, 2017 18:10:05 GMT
Ah, FruityLlama, I hate to admit that I do exactly the same thing. When that starts happening I try to get to the crux of why I'm so upset, and dig into the emotions and energy there. Like pulling out a poisonous arrow and letting the poison drain out. I'm going to have to smudge our house today at some point, that's for sure. Hugs 💕
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Post by Deleted on Jul 30, 2017 4:55:02 GMT
I have 11th moon, Pisces in 11th. I tend to befriend 11th mooners and my social circle fluctuates depends on whether I want to engage or not. But when I do come out, ppl really nurture me ( a moony theme here). I tend to stand out in more close nit circle and I'm an Aries moon so I do get plenty of attention for initiating meetings and being vocal. I can also disappear from a group for a long period of time.
I befriend with lots of different ppl, usually ppl I find quirky or interesting and I shy away from the Virgo archetype (accountant types, 9-5 job ppl who grew up in the same state or town and never leave, eventually settle and get married type).
I also don't do well with ppl who need to be bff and hang out with each other all the time. I like to skype or heck in with friends every few months and they tend to live in many different places. My Neptune is in cap and Jupiter in Virgo so my friendships tend to last very long. I have friends who's been with me for almost 20 years
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Post by FruityLlama on Jul 30, 2017 14:09:24 GMT
Violets, you mean you have the same problem with your friends? I tend to befriend people louder and more talkative than me who eventually get on my nerves. I think that must be the Aries cusp and Sun/Mercury being there. But I am also uncomfortable with people more quieter than me. I sound like a pain in the backside, I know but I think I am just too aware of people's flaws and the fact that friendship is a difficult thing to hold onto in this day and age. My grandparents were very sociable people back in the day, they used to have their friends over for christmas day which my mum hated. My grandmother said later on in life that those friends aren't here anymore, they are not friends anymore really..just drifted apart. So what was the point in it all? Prioritising friendship over family seems daft. I am someone who needs meaningful and deep connections basically but Im not sure where in my chart that is represented...I have NN and SN on the Taurus/Scorpio axis in the 5th and 11th house. However, I do make surface friends easily. There are some friends who I love and miss, one is in France right now and I'm not sure I will really see them again which is a shame. It is a sad topic to me realy. Oh well.. @theunknown I am the same with drifting in and out. I am a huge introvert so I think maybe my problem is that. Being around people for a long time does drain you but then again I am not shy about meeting new people and hanging out with them every now and again. If only we all knew each other here in real life!!
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Post by Violets on Jul 30, 2017 15:02:21 GMT
FruityLlama, no I meant about going over conversations in my head that pissed me off. I'm usually the overly talkative friend, but I like it when people interject quickly, to keep the volleying up, or else I'll accidentally dominate the conversation. But I can fester over people hitting the wrong nerve.
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Post by FruityLlama on Jul 31, 2017 14:20:11 GMT
Violets ohhhhh right yeah I wish I could say what i want right there and then but sometimes i dont know of thats better than letting it fester. either way someone still ends up upset! I think Im ok with talkative people unless they are very opinionated and think theyre right all the time and what they say is gospel. its hard to pinpoint my issues actually but yeah...this thread has got me thinking....and expressing so thank you!!!
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