Ava"trange that your new moon wasn't quite memorable,"
Well maybe it is because it is a lunar PHASE, so the moment of the exact New Moon is just the beginning of that phase.
until the next stop in the lunar phases, which would be about 2,5 years later.
At the moment I am in this phase
"Disseminating Phase: Sharing What You’ve Learned
Your Progressed Moon is 135-90 degrees behind your Progressed Sun. This is the teaching phase; you’re ready to take what you’ve learned (during the Waxing part of your cycle) and deliver the message. It’s is a social phase, so if you’re looking, it’s a good time to meet a new partner. But the caution here is to avoid forcing your ideas onto others. You may know a thing or two about why your past relationships didn’t work out, but that doesn’t mean you need to lecture your new love interest about it. If you’ve achieved what you wanted (so far) in your love life, this phase can be a satisfying time where you share your good fortune with others."
sasstrology.com/2013/01/your-personal-lunar-phases-the-cycle-of-your-relationships.htmlthis one started on 10th july 2018, with pr Moon on 25 Virgo and therefore already exact conjunct P`s natal DESC and squaring my own natal Sun. Also this was 3 days after the fanmeeting took place.
P is still in the first quarter phase
"First Quarter Phase: Break From The Past
This is known as the “Crisis in Action” phase. Your Progressed Moon is 90-135 degrees ahead of your Progressed Sun. This is one of the most active phases, when the struggle that began in the Crescent Phase results in a clean break from the past. You may get divorced, or married, but the basis is always a need to become independent. A relationship that begins during this time may have a rebellious quality to it. This phase kicks off with the tense energy of a square (your Progressed Moon makes a square to your Progressed Sun). It’s this tension between your needs (Progressed Moon) and how you consciously meet them (Progressed Sun) that drives you forward."
It started at the end of january 2016 with the square between his pr Moon on 3 Taurus to his pr Sun on 3 Aquarius, and about a month before the concert, where he was starting to behaving "weird", like on that occasion basically observing me through the window of a cafe, with me being much more interested in eating my sandwich (I was in my pouting mood, also I had changed my haircut and clothing style drastically, maybe he just tried to figure out if it was me. lol), and when I saw him again in may that year, he was acting even weirder. and I guess in a way he hasn`t stopped acting weird since then, though the kind of weirdness fluctuates. lol
In that phse there is the progressed trine happening, and even though it is not mentioned, maybe it is some sort of respite?
For him that happened mid-june 2018 (pr Sun on 6 Aquarius trine pr Moon on 6 Gemini, right on my Draco Moon and applying to my natal DESC
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It was 2 weeks approximately before I was messaging him with the suggestion for the auction for his fanmeeting, and of course the fanmeeting itself happened while the aspect was still partile I think.
The next phase for him will start with the sesisquare and that is going to happen in september this year, with pr Sun on 7 Aquarius and pr Moon on 22 Gemini.
Well he should enjoy this summer as much as he can, cause frankly the following phase does not sound so good, really.
"Gibbous Phase: Adjust Your Expectations
Your Progressed Moon is now 135-180 degrees ahead of your Progressed Sun. This is the fine tuning phase; you may find yourself slowing down and analyzing what has happened since your New Moon. Often, you’ll have to adjust your needs to the needs of others. For example, you may be pushing for marriage and discover that your partner is not ready. He’s not saying “No,” just “Not yet.” So you need to adjust your expectations. If you’re trying to meet someone new during this phase, be prepared for some frustration. This is not the time when you get everything you want."
Mine gibbuous phase started in january 2012, just days/ weeks after basically walking out on him, and it only ended with the fullmoon phase starting in 2015.
With the quinkunx happening in 2013, well there was a lot of adjusting going on for sure! In short that phase sucked big time. Not getting all I wanted. Oh boy! lol
though it was also during that phase, well about a year before it ended, that a lot of adjusting of my thought processes had to be done for some startling yet good surprises he delivered me. lol
Maybe he was having a better lunar phase then?
but those phases are definitely interesting.
"I`ll let you know about that, I`m approaching ever so slowly pr Moon square natal Sun (25th july 2018 is the exact date of that happening, pr Moon on 25°56 Virgo)."
LOL, wasn't that around the time of the coffee date? Let me know now, please.
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Ah interesting.
Actually I was putting up a message on 26th july on his fangroup, asking other fans who would be at the open air the other day, it was certainly not directed to him, but he responded to me telling me he had to cancel and actually later when we met, seeming downright surprised I went there nevertheless.
"You did go and see it nevertheless?"
"Of course I did! Why wouldn`t I have?"
LOL
That was the literal exchange, as if I cancel something just because he is not going to be there!
But so yes, he basically informed me personally about his cancellation, in fact he did so just after he did the cancelling, he must just have ended the call with the responisble people (cause the host mentioned it later, when he was calling. lol)
Oh and on the open air itself I was being stung by a bee. And that really hurt! It was also the night of the blood moon, so go figure. lol
But yes, it was in between the fanmeeting on 7th july and the coffee on 10th august (also on the Solar Eclipse).
" (I say this as my youngest son is picking up a giant yellow stuffed duck almost as tall as he is, and whacking his older brother with it, directly in front of me. My other son is laughing and somehow this is "good"...."
LOL so cute!
"Then I had a full moon @ 26 Leo/Aqua around Sept 25, 2015. "
Yes, well this was just the start of the phase, probably you are still in that full moon phase, or might just have transitioned into the next phase.
"Now, pr moon is waning (yawn) and I live in suburbia and don't exactly know what's up.....my next lunation is around May 18, 2022, pr sun @ 2 Pisces square pr moon @ 2 Sag.
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In terms of lunar phases the dissemanating phase (starting 135 degrees before your pr Sun) will come first. You know the phase I am in currently. lol
January 2, 2030 - next progressed new moon:
10.30 Pisces, pr sun
10.27 Pisces, pr moon
on my Jupiter and squaring my nodal axis and conjunt my Ceres. but it is a long time until then of course.
I think my own progressed new moon is not far off from then.
well mine will take place in december 2029 on 21 Aquarius.
Well interesting, we seem to have overlapping lunar phases, and very close to each other.
The exact New Moon starts for me on 5th december 2029 on 21°51 Aquarius.