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Post by Ava on May 7, 2018 20:39:55 GMT
It's been suggested that we might explore this topic. đ€ The problem is, even you have his heart, you might not know it, or you think you have his heart and you don't. So I think step one must be, how to read very subtle signals and know you are loved. How to make do with subtle signals. How to let subtle signals be enough. Along those lines.............. Any thoughts? How did you capture/tame/win fidelity from a Cap guy? I'm asking the world at large, you can just join here and tell us about it if you like. Thanks
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Post by lumina on May 7, 2018 20:46:25 GMT
Being the woman of his dreams, whom he truely values and admires, certainly helps. (yes even Cap-guys have dreams, they just don`t admit it. Well not quite true the Cap guy I am thinking of kind of told me that he was in love with my best friend and asked me to not tell her. Or did I just figure it out and he didn`t want to lie about it? I do not quite remember anymore. but doesn`t matter, his patience definitely won her heart in the end.) But Ava of course you know best that there are other things going on in that particular horoscope like a Venus in Sag conjunct Neptune for example (and an Aqua-Moon, which probably was the reason, he was so open about it towards me)
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Post by lumina on May 7, 2018 20:49:20 GMT
Actually it is pretty funny, I seem to only meet/ know Capricorn guys with their Venus either in Sag or in Aqua. lol
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2018 21:42:00 GMT
Oh man!! I remember when I made a post of this nature back at LL - that post was how I met you Ava ! Funnily enough, that infamous Cap Sun/Cap Moon/Cap/Saturn is now my boyfriend of two years, probably successfully captured because of all the great advice I received Based on my experiences with this mega Cap, here's some tidbits I can offer to future victims *ahem* I mean suitors. - Capricorns don't care if you have money. They want to be your sugar daddies. If you don't have designer clothes and you've never been on a luxury vacation before - all the better. They want to be your first experience in this venture.
- However.. Capricorns do seem enamored by physical beauty. Much like Taurus wants to be surrounded by the finest linens, and Virgo's want to be surrounded by the most efficient everything, Capricorns want to gaze upon physical perfection. It's a deeply embedded need in their psyche.
- Much like their Cancer counterparts, they do prefer bustiness
- They are hardworkers. Not because they love to slave away at the behest of their second girlfriend, Capitalism, but because they really don't trust anyone else's vision with a task so they take it upon themselves. Show that you're a competent person. It soothes their soul to know you won't have to be yet another thing they micromanage.
- geminiblues gave excellent advice in that post - massage them. They're not used to relaxing. At first they'll become rigid, and their breathing shallow, but slowly they'll start to relax. They're not used to doing that. Then they'll fall asleep immediately.
- They loathe picky eaters. Keep an open mind.
- Do not ever try to change them. Ever. They will dig their heels into the dirt no matter how right you are, no matter how good your intentions are. Lead by example and with time, they'll start to follow your own healthy patterns. Accept that you will never get credit for this once it actually happens.
- They're not gonna open up to you. Again, accept that there are doors in that brain that you'll never have the keys too. Instead read between the lines when they say something seemingly mundane. There are troves of treasure in those shallow waters.
- Prepare to have the best sex of your life. And don't be a pillow princess.
- Ask for advice and take their advice (or at least pretend like you are). They will feel SO loved with this simply gesture it's unreal
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Post by Deleted on May 7, 2018 22:07:22 GMT
....his patience definitely won her heart in the end.) So that's a tip! You have to be patient enough to let his patience win your heart. This is real shit though! I asked out my now bf once and waited 9 months to get a response from him If that ain't Saturnine then I don't know what is
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Post by Deleted on May 8, 2018 14:38:54 GMT
Lmaooo 8 months is extremely generous for a Cap, absolutely once it gets passed 10 months, then I'll start sweating.. Yeah I can completely relate to that. Every time I think he loves me, something (undramatic) will happen and I'll just be like "nope, nevermind". Then just as I give up hope and decide I should move on suddenly I'll be showered with gifts and blatant affection in such a manner that it almost disturbs the spirit. Then the cycle goes on. Never a dull moment.
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Post by Violets on May 8, 2018 23:47:51 GMT
I dated two Capricorn guys that I can recall, around the same time in my life (Saturn Return, wooo). I didn't win the heart of either, lol. I won the lust and friendship of one, and the respect and attraction of the other, but I don't think I was trying very hard. I did win the love of my Cap Moon husband though, and that's saying something for a guy with a Sagittarius Asc and Aquarius Mars/NN.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2018 2:54:16 GMT
Lots of cap like me lol đ Iâm a cap stellium and quite a picky eater
Anyway I am rarely interested in a cap sun per the title of this topic but for other cap placements : - the part about physical beauty is true but Capricorn respects strong ppl. In fact there are quite a few more conservative writers and thinkers who admitted they married smarter women (George Clooney is one... heâs not a thinker but i can go back my database for a later day). So basically they seek ppl who have a long term possibility with them. For some itâs beauty ... honestly manythink itâs beauty and then they meet someone who can stand in their own feet and they surprised themselves đ -they do want to provide for you but they secretly want you to take on your share. If you donât they will lose their respect for you. Itâs really really sad... this part about respect applies for everyone but Capricorn put a price tag on you and if you behave in ways that make them think your price tag isnât that high... theyâll abuse you. I have seen a few cases like this where theyâd drag their wives from place to place for their career but canât walk with them to a restaurant ( because the wives have no career ... wonder why?). - also I actually know married Capricornâs so I have to tell you they will tell you how much they provide for you but donât fall in the trap of letting them making all the decisions and cover for you. They should do it out of love, not the need for you to worship, and bow down to them. The abusive cap men can be quite self entitled. Matt Lauer for examples cheated on his wife for year and he thought he had that right because he was the breadwinner and the wife never divorced him until the whole sexual abuses came out.... - with cap anything you have to make them work for it a little bit. This is not playing games. More like going with their slow flow where they need to figure you out and figure how they feel - as with all relationships, cap appreciate grounded ppl, good level of communication and especially good boundaries. They arenât gonna tell you these things but if you donât want to be spoken about as a cheap little thing, you should draw your own boundaries very early on and follow through. Once the time is set, they are very good at respecting these boundaries. Thatâs a very nice thing about cap lol ( unlike plenty of other signs that think stepping on your toes the umpteenth time somehow works *cough* libra)
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2018 4:18:59 GMT
I actually can write a book on Capricorn placements but here are a few other things ppl got wrong about caps
- they are actually very emotionally intense. Thatâs why they canât express their feelings at all and deep down they just want you to baby them. But then again they are not cancer, theyâre the 10th sign so you actually have to prove to them that they can trust you for having their back.
- a cap can marry you but you still do not have their hearts. Donât be naive. A cap can marry you because you look good on them. Thatâs why the idea that theyâre gold diggers is a bit naive because they want ppl to think they find their match. Some less mature caps exchange their power for a trophy wife or their youth and beauty for security (a la Melania Trump) but donât think that once they found their footing somewhere else they wonât make a business decision to cut their tie with you and revamp their reputation. This is where libra is a much better partner ... Libraâs actually play for keep. They might cause drama but at the end of the day they care. Caps cut you off because they donât bother to waste their life on you... ouch!
-They are represented by the devil in the tarot. The reason they take care of you is that so if you break up they can come back and say they donât owe you anything. Caps usually dislike debts and they donât want to owe you anything so that in the future you can pressure them to do something they donât want. They know the ins and outs of power dynamics mire than any one else.
- how to have a cap heart: play exactly their game. Hold your cards close to your chest. Give them out at the deserving moments. Have their back but you gotta have your back. To Scorpio thatâs a sign you donât trust them and cancer or scorp can get upset over your insistence to stand on your own feet but caps will respect the fact that you donât need them and donât owe them anything. Itâs the precise way of making a cap work hard for your affection. Respect yourself. Have your own empire built and make it clear to them that you didnât come for their power or money.
At the end of the days Capricorn is the opp of cancer. Cancer feels everything and absorbs it under their shells. But capswlnt even let themselves cry, because crying isnât gonna make the climb any easier. So you gotta make them feel like when they canât trust themselves, they can trust you. That my dear is how you have a capâs heart. The good caps are really really good. The bad ones, you need to have secret chests built in the wall to save your dark horses. Cause youâre gonna need them.
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Post by Deleted on May 9, 2018 6:13:32 GMT
Can we do a topic for other signs too like khmmm cough*cancer*cough. đ
Don't think I ever attracted a Cap so I don't know about them at all.
One had a crush on me but this was back in middle school. I never liked him back but remained friends
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Post by Violets on May 9, 2018 16:15:51 GMT
Aw, Ava. †I think there's a lot of accurate observations here. I'm generally not attracted to Cap Suns, and vice versa. They don't often enter my life, come to think of it. But I have noticed the intensity, and appreciate it. I tend to have really solid friendships with Capricorn guys, but not a lot of romance.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on May 9, 2018 16:32:59 GMT
- with cap anything you have to make them work for it a little bit. This is not playing games. Yeah! So many wonderful points already, I just wanted to add this. -- Don't play games (actually, this goes for all earth signs I suppose, but Cap especially so because you can't talk your way out of it). -- Say what you mean and mean what you say. -- Don't embarrass them in public. -- Their moments of vulnerability are fleeting - handle with care. -- Don't pressure them to open up too quickly. Being curious is fine, but being nosy will make them clam up. They'll tell you everything, all in good time. ^ From my limited experience. To add to your stories, a Cappy friend of mine 'liked' me. I had an inkling, but I thought it was just a crush and it had passed. Well, a couple years later, I found out he was still thinking of me, and it was slightly more than just a crush. He had his reasons for not telling. That happens sometimes. For instance, if they feel like they don't have a shot with you - you'll probably never hear about it. Except after the fact. On the other hand, if they *do* think you two have a chance, you have a very consistent (insistent ) suitor. This thread, though! Yeah, I was thinking of a bit of a series - depending on how much fuel we've got. Figured we'd start out slow with *one* sign.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2018 16:17:29 GMT
Oh that is such an interesting article. It never occurred to me that Bradley was a Cap Sun-Venus but it makes so much sense. The older he gets, the younger he looks, and he has such an understated beauty that can really make your jaw drop when you least expect it. Makes sense why I'm so attracted to him.
I also think it's perfect that he's playing the male role in such a film, from the description: I just think that narrative is SO Capricorn. Just picture the scenario: a Cap is the master of his universe, he rubs shoulders with the best of the best, can have any accomplished partner he wants - but the Cap becomes much more interested in finding someone that's down and out, who has never had someone believe in them before, decides then to mentor them, and then molds them into greatness (specifically, in their image). Then the interest starts to fade the closer to greatness the students becomes to the master.
I saw A Star Is Born this weekend and my God, Bradley was just fantastic in it. I would be disappointed if he didn't get a lot of nominations for the way he fleshed out this role.
Wow and how Saturnine is this passage? It's absolutely the personification of a Capricorn's desire for unilateral control, particularly when it comes to the creative aspect of his psyche (Cap Venus). Unsurprisingly Bradley has Cancer Saturn opposition his Cap Sun/Venus/Mercury
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2018 17:17:55 GMT
Total Capricorn hyper-awareness of the passage of time and their place in it. Also: More attention to how time is the builder of all things authentic. Their chemistry is out of this world in the movie (funnily enough, she's a Capricorn ASC) Capricorns are the most incredible people on Earth when they have a mission and nothing will stop them from achieving it.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2018 17:54:10 GMT
athena oh yes... Iâd say the whole article is so cappy i didnât bother to quote. The fact that he distrusts the writer for only focusing on getting the article out, the fact that he keeps his personal life private, the fact that he thinks it takes TIME to get to know someone, the fact that his fatherâs death immediately changed him and Gave him clarity, the fact he met Kempt who taught him how to let go... Not in this article but he also said he had to let ppl feel like the couple fell in love because love takes time and he couldnât rush it. I saw the movie last night and had tears rolling my eyes. After this whole thing im seriously his fan
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Post by Ava on Oct 8, 2018 14:05:25 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2018 20:55:03 GMT
Ava omg I didnât even see the sun square Pluto. No wonder I like him so much
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 22, 2019 3:05:33 GMT
Re: "time" - I gotta say - that theme of "waiting" is pretty strong. (From what I've seen, the handful of Capricorn men I've known). They're willing to wait years to get together (or get back together) with you. I guess I appreciate that since I'm fairly Saturnian myself and move at a glacial pace. They're as tenacious as Scorpio in that regard, but not as outwardly oriented. Scorpio might smolder for a long time with the intent of eventually going after you. They won't stay underground forever. Caps get discouraged very easily and though they may carry a torch for you, they will have a harder time acting on it. However, subtle signals that they're welcome are enough to get them out of that mental block, whereas with Scorpio, they likely won't trust your signals, subtle or not, lol.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 22, 2019 3:28:41 GMT
Lol. Revisiting this thread ~ still laughing at your post. I love that you pull no punches. Have their back but you gotta have your back. To Scorpio thatâs a sign you donât trust them and cancer or scorp can get upset over your insistence to stand on your own feet True, add Pisces to that. And Libra too, though they'll try to hide it.
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