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Post by Ava on Apr 5, 2018 20:01:39 GMT
Ava I don’t relate to the venus in Pisces description either. Itink when Venus conjunct Neptune, the ne neptunium quality manifest as external and circumstantial than internal. I never want to melt with another person the way a Pisces Venus does, but being in a room with somebody I might feel myself meltiing or absorbing others’ feelings Makes sense....... Ha, well it's funny for me, speaking of external Neptune, my college boyfriend was a music lover/pothead and initiated me into that world, then my husband, I met at church. Two manifestations of Neptune, drugs and religion. Edit: Music and religion fit Sag Neptune more than some other Neptune positions, of course.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Apr 5, 2018 20:17:18 GMT
Well said as always 12YearsABlob , I love and respect that and have benefitted from it (Virgo Venus husband). At the same time, my Sag Venus is confused/trapped by it. "Am I the One? Or is that just how you roll, whoever it may be?" Well, I guess every individual is different. Don't mean to speak for allll Virgo venuses out there. But the point I was making is, we simply don't see it as "the One" vs "not the One".. Doesn't mean the one we're with is the 'expedient' choice or the one we just 'happened' to end up with. We love and see the individual, in all the infinite-detail-Virgo way. Like I was saying on the twin flames thread. Those terms might mean something else to other people.. But, not calling it 'the one' doesn't mean our love is any less deep or passionate or whatever... We just don't see it that way, as there being one superior love. Every love is *true*. Each individual is unique and a gem in their own right. No class system of 'the one' or the 'better' love.. "Love is what we make it"... quoting Kenny Rogers. Lol. But that's just me, might be different for other people, even for other Virgo venuses, I dunno..
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Post by anela on Apr 5, 2018 20:23:37 GMT
She's right about preferring things light, and fun. Laid-back. I miss that. I'm so heavy now, I feel like I am a boulder, not just carrying one.
I never wanted to flit from person to person, though. That was the opposite of what I wanted. I can actually be too serious where that's concerned, but it is in the 8th house. Trine pluto, sextile Jupiter, square Mars in Pisces, inconjunct Uranus/ascendant, and of course, conjunct the moon. If my relationships aren't okay, I'm not okay. My core relationships. So family goes *boom* I'm left flailing.
I was never into partying, I didn't want to be around a house full of people making out, and getting drunk. I wish I'd had more fun, though, just going to concerts, getting out more. I wanted to travel, but not to live out of a suitcase. I like my home (Mars in Pisces in the 4th). I miss the convenience of the city, but also love the quiet of the neighbourhood we're in. I need to be able to utilize my own time. I don't know what I'll do if I can't do things on my own hours. I asked dad how much it might cost to rent one of the small cabins or campers in a local park, recently. I have never been drawn to camping, but I love being outside - just give me a shower, and easy access to a toilet, and it doesn't sound so bad. I have my phone now, but in the past, getting out of the house was a disconnection from all of the computer and TV stuff, a mental break from everything facebook, etc.
I once wanted to paint a room turquoise. I do like bright colours. Pale yellow (not harsh, and darker) has been a favourite. Almost like a highlighter pen on the wall, but softer, and buttery.
WTF? I keep hearing a phone ring, but it's not mine.
I do need a mental connection. I miss the way we used to always have a laugh. A former friend thought I was a lot younger than I am, when I had a sense of humour.
"You can become who you need to be, to seduce someone." Nah. I used to look for anything we had in common, as most people do, and tried things out to see if I liked them (music, TV, books, etc). I would try to match what someone might like, but that was also due to social anxiety. That can't last for long, though. Either they're going to like you, or they aren't. I think I've always assumed they wouldn't, due to the bullying and issues left over from that. Whenever I got over that, I was sabotaged, and reminded that I'm unacceptable. So whatever.
Oh god, I need tea, and to take my SAM-e.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Apr 6, 2018 0:33:47 GMT
*sniffle* And see, we have that in common, what with Jupiter being the teacher...Jupiter-Venus, learning about love. That and I do have Sag MC (square Jupiter), so I'm goofy like a Sag. My MC conjunct your Venus, so we have that energy in common as well!
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