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Post by Deleted on Aug 2, 2017 23:04:59 GMT
You're too sweet Faith. I wish everyone felt that way about the things I said! Life would be such smooth sailing if that was the case 🌊
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Post by Deleted on Aug 3, 2017 20:36:42 GMT
Mars is my dsc ruler and lies in my 10th in leo conj venus
my pet peeves mainly involve work things
generally my pet peeves are: -office gossip -ppl at work asking me too much of my personal life -ppl taking credit for others work -repetitive jokes -ppl joking at expense of others feelings -unfairness -ppl doing less work than others and just take take take -bad personal hygeine -when i buy a sandwich outside and the staff dont wipe the knife before cutting or wipe the counter before making my sandwich lol -ppl blowing their cigarette smoke around me -ppl managing to take up the whole pavement and walking slowly while im in a rush
I also have mercury virgo and aries on my 6th house cusp
i probably have more but this is what i could think of lol
pls dnt quote
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Post by Violets on Aug 3, 2017 22:21:02 GMT
vgI can relate to much of your post, but especially people taking up an entire sidewalk (pavement) and walking slowly! 😂 I lived in the city for 15 years, and walked or used public transportation everywhere I went. Slow walkers and sidewalk hogs were the bane of my existence, ha. I learned to walk quickly and dart in and out between people while still getting out a hasty "sorry, excuse me!"
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Post by FruityLlama on Aug 20, 2017 7:40:59 GMT
I have Mars in Leo and I am very critical of people. I know its bad..
A pet peeve that i think relates to Mars in Leo is being interrupted. I hate it so much and also being talked iver. I relate to the above posts about people putting you in a box... you cant just ponder about things anymore, people want a solid opinion and end up taking umbridge even when youre just musing about something. Orrrr people just dont listen, thats another peeve.
A recent conversation I had with my friends illustrates this. Two of my friends for some reason dont care much about animal welfare and they were talking about animal testing done at uni (there were some protests at uni about it apparently). And one of my friends was being quite.... aggrivating. I didnt rise to it but I just said, just as a sort of ponder "I know there are few alternatives but isnt it weird how we take the results of animal testing so seriously when we are not the same species". I just meant that yknow, on the one hand animals are treated as beneath us yet in the labs they might as well be exactly the same for the way we rely on their reactions to cosmetics and all the rest of it. Anyway, I did say that I know there arent any alternatives really (well i think there are but lets not go into that) and they just replied rather abruptly "well what else can we do?"
And I felt like saying, do you listen to a word I say or are you just looking to fight with me? It was a little bit after the political converstion we had which i am actually still annoyed about haha. The same kind of thing happened there basically
The same happens with my grandparents and bf. it just really upsets me.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2017 20:09:11 GMT
I can also be critical but i always thought that was my virgo mercury I dislike being criticised, i dont take it well. I also really dislike being interupted, or people not listening. The worst is at work when i write an email and it gets ignored. Pls dnt quote
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Post by FruityLlama on Aug 22, 2017 11:02:33 GMT
I can also understand where people are coming from and am very tolerant until I feel that they are just walking all over me without any respect and when I feel that others think I am beneath them. Im very tolerant until then haha
Just wanted to add, because for some reason this is quite fun to think about (sorry if that's dark haha), I dislike bluntness in communication. Its so easy to do over text or online, I know. But I do think that y'know, its not hard to put a bit of warmth in there, even just an emoji or something. Some people are really oblivious to how rude they can seem sometimes and it bothers me because it can be hurtful sometimes. There was a lot of that on the forum-that-should-not-be-named.
Furthermore, I don't like injustice either, or hypocrisy.
People who use social classes or monetary status as an insult. For some reason in this country, being middle class is a bad thing, but its alright if you are working class. It seems like the working class should be loved without question, but if you come from a slightly better off family then you are scum. I don't get it really because presumably they both work hard, if they do at all, but for some reason that is fair to treat people like that?? I don't think it is right at all to judge ANYONE by their monetary status. You don't know their story and just because they earn more or less does not mean they automatically deserve this or that. But if someone has worked for their money then why are they disliked? Is it jealousy? I don't know but that can be upsetting and I have been subject to this. I have worked since I was 16 and I remember when I got my first payment, (it wasn't much), or maybe once I'd saved up...I bought a really nice top from a sort of designer/label type place and wore it to school and my friends at the time gave me hell about being spoilt or something. They didn't work by the way.
Double standards, man. Annoying as hell.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2017 18:55:16 GMT
Scorpio Mars in first on Asc
I hate indecisiveness. If I want to go somewhere for lunch and nobody is sure of where they want to go it drives me mad. I'm like, "pick a fucking place and lets go!" Too impatient sometimes.
Even then if they don't want to go anywhere I will leave them behind and go by myself; not going to wait around for them.
I also can't stand being treated like I'm stupid, beating around the bush, and people who act like they know everything. When I'm talking to you I'm not there to listen to your ego.
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Post by FruityLlama on Mar 30, 2018 17:33:46 GMT
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YES.
My coursemates do this sometimes because they are stressed and whatnot (arent we all though!) and feel its perfectly fine to be grumpy little s.
Some of them are far from home, I get it, but thats not my fault is it.
I think my pet peeve is just basically people, specifically my age, once I get to know them 😂 how sad!
There are exceptions of course.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 30, 2018 21:00:05 GMT
Oh, I got so many! *cracks knuckles* Well, on some days. On some days, I just take it all in without opinion or interference. Depends on the day, I guess. Maybe I should try writing this later.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 1, 2018 3:41:31 GMT
Ava this is kinda late but i hate coupons too. Systemize that shizz please. Must be a capricorn thing. Coupons are such a virgo/cancer thing some other pet peaves: people touching my shizz ... this might be a taurus thing, or sun-pluto thing ... idk. Gosh, ask for permission before you do something. I absolutely hate it when people mess with my business. I hate it even more when people put me on blast. These two items will literally set my aries moon up on fire even when I am normally pretty subdued ... people who have not paid their dues and somehow have the nerves to assume the credits. people who have not paid their dues and have the nerves to tell me to dim my light so they can be comfortable in the complacent puddle of mud people who kiss others' ass ... where is your critical thinking and self worth? people who don't do their dishes in common area unethical people of any kind
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Post by FruityLlama on Apr 2, 2018 12:38:55 GMT
Actually I think I know how to sum up my pet peeves regarding others:- Cold people. That's what it is, in all its forms whether it be grumpiness or aloofness. And this makes sense for a Mars in Leo!
One of my friends is the same as me in this respect and she has Mars in Aries.
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Post by anela on Apr 2, 2018 19:34:07 GMT
I see cold people as those who shut you out completely. My sister can freeze you out "like that". I can't do that, and I'm grumpy a lot now. Never used to be.
Mars in Pisces peeve: Most stores were closed yesterday, and I couldn't get my chocolate. I'm PMS'ing like mad, and the World Market was shut. I've been nibbling on huge bars of chocolate called Chocolonely, for the last few weeks.
I really dislike being lied to, but I've covered that. And I have to have my own back, way too much. I used to love how close my family was, and with other people, preferred to find a way to build bridges, rather than burn them. Now it's burn baby burn, if you really cross me. I find myself having empathy for people who treat me like sh*t much too often. I need to learn to be cold.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2018 20:31:36 GMT
Curious if anyone can give some of their examples/experiences for Cancer Mars
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Nov 11, 2018 20:36:01 GMT
I see cold people as those who shut you out completely. Me too. But that's just the way it is sometimes, what can we do...
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Nov 11, 2018 20:40:11 GMT
Curious if anyone can give some of their examples/experiences for Cancer Mars You mean their pet peeves? IME:
* People being cold, as mentioned above.
* Not being "in their corner". i.e. if they're mad about something and instead of comforting them, their friend rationally picks apart the argument... big no-no.
* Fake niceness: They can sense when people are pretending to be Miss (or Mr) Goody-two-shoes but won't lift a finger for them if it came down to it.
* Random things, if they're in a bad mood - but this passes, you just have to wait it out.
Other than that, I don't have much. They're usually such sweethearts. Very understanding of other people's flaws and screw-ups.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 11, 2018 20:42:43 GMT
12YearsABlobYes that is what I meant thanks! those do not seem to bad in book
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Nov 11, 2018 20:46:00 GMT
@intuitivefish : Oh, I forgot the biggest one!! If you pick on their loved ones, or make them unhappy in any way. They get angry on others' behalf way more often than they do for themselves.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Nov 11, 2018 21:02:29 GMT
I love a Virgo's sense of adaptability. There's a difference between being adaptable and being fake, and a Virgo is almost always in the former category when they're able to curtail their needs for the enjoyment of others. It's such a selfless sign at its core. Yes! * 1000 💓 True about the Virgo style of communication too. All the Virgos in my life ask a million questions to really nail down what I'm trying to say (I can be vague at times). They'll also argue with me about myself..? "I'm telling you, you had bagels yesterday!" Er.. Okay, you know my life better than I...
What's annoying is, they're likely to be right. Especially coz I'm zoned out most of the time.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Nov 11, 2018 21:09:19 GMT
Random pet peeves... 1) YouTube videos where the person takes aeons to present about ten seconds' worth of content. "How I fixed my acne." The answer is "apple cider vinegar" and the story is an hour long. 2) YouTube videos with extremely long or loud, shocking introductions...YouTube videos where the person BEGINS the video pleading for you to subscribe, before you even saw the content...YouTube videos about 90% of the time. ROFL.
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Post by Violets on Nov 12, 2018 15:05:41 GMT
What a funny coincidence (or synchronicity)--I was just thinking yesterday about people's Mars placements, and the strengths/pet peeves associated with them.
I'll get into that more later, but suffice it to say my Mars in Cap gets a good workout by doing practical stuff that needs to be done. Living out in the country, I'm so annoyed by people in my life who struggle with exercise but won't be bothered by the basic chores that would keep them in better shape (I was raking leaves yesterday, unloading wood, etc.)
My husband has Mars in Aquarius, lol. He's not much for exercise through practicality.
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