Chiron Synastry

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I realize I had lots of Chiron contacts in my relationships so I’m gonna post more about it here....
in the mean time feel free to contribute

[Ava]

My Chiron @ 23 Aries. Most notably in my life, I have Mars trine Chiron DW with my husband, and the resulting trine in composite is part of a kite configuration (overlapping kites, actually). Mars/Chiron, what do you think of that, @theunknown?

I guess a rather coarse and obvious interpretation is, sexual healing, and it's TMI to comment there, but physical chemistry is a major pillar of my marriage.

However, my natal Chiron is square to composite Mars in Cancer, representing my struggles to gain and keep independence, even when there is some kind of emotional drama ensuing from it (no offense to Mars in Cancer people, but this can be a rather VOCAL, sometimes poetic, but often downright manipulative Mars.)

Pls don't quote

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Ava Mars is not just sex. It's the physical manifestation of the self. So with your mars trine someone's chiron, you might feel less inhibited when it comes to expressing your physical self. Hence the sexual healing, but also higher level of comfort in daily movement because there's less shame, there's a freer feeling, the feeling of being liberated from the need to be wary about hurting others so much we hurt ourselves.

I am not particularly compatible with most cancer placements (other than the Sun) so yes to that lol.

My mars currently trining someone's chiron, tho its a 4-5 degree orbs. His chiron is right on my ascendant tho.

[Ava]

Feb 8, 2019 1:12:23 GMT @theunknown said:

...but also higher level of comfort in daily movement because there's less shame, there's a freer feeling, the feeling of being liberated from the need to be wary about hurting others so much we hurt ourselves.

Damn. Truest stuff ever. 

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I’m looking at my current housemate’s chart now. Her Chiron is right on my south node. Her north node is right on my 4th Jupiter. Her mars in Aries retrograde square it. Her Neptune right on my north node. And my north node is in 8th. Needless to say our past 2 or so year living together was all about shared resources, I.e mine being shared to her. I am moving out this Sunday when transit north node is on our Composite chiron. This whole time I have been kind to her and ignore her behaviors to always taking advantage of others and taking it out on me and my sh!t when she has bouts of jealousy or disagreement with her bf (whom she’s clinging on for protection). I even gave her a free week of rent because she pretended to be poor and needy (which honestly I don’t regret even tho she’s not grateful and in her head she just think she was so smart she could manipulate others). Now I’m moving I’ll take everything with me so literally the whole house is empty and she is starting to realize how much I’ve offered her all this time.

Any I just checked our chart today and was shocked to find the chiron contact.
The day she moved in was when Aries venus was on my moon, her mars. Pluto opposite our comp chiron, on our Saturn. (Comp Saturn opposite chiron) and I’m moving out when Saturn return in our comp 😂. It’s almost as if she’s supposed to face her chiron in cancer this time.

Her Chiron on my South node in 2nd was meant to teach me about self worth and not holding on to material things. She’s one of the stingiest, most materialistic people I’ve ever known. And now I’m taking a deep dive in the 8th away that material security because when you hold on your own material comfort you attract those interested in your own material comfort. When you seek emotional fulfillment you’ll attract such ppl as well

[Ava]

Good luck with your move @theunknown. Interesting dynamic you described there, I appreciate the analysis as a model of how one might look at everything.

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Ava I think Taurean/2nd houses tend to keep peace. Not in the libra sorta way but more like I’m gonna be quiet and just sustain my green pasture. Now i’ve moved out I just feel relieved and surprised how much pressure I was taking all this time. I had to write an essay to her when I made my decision fearing she might go crazy and start dramas. She literally spilled soy sauce over my farm house dining table and just left it there to piss me off (I’m talking about a puddle). Obviously I’m not excused here. I had her in because I know she needed me, and thought she could take advantage of me because I know even when she go crazy I’m too good of a deal to leave so I’ll continue to have my financial stability (ie someone who pays their part of the rent) ... we live and we learn.

[Ava]

@theunknown,

Ah, more interesting thoughts, thank you. Hope you can restore that dining room table? Did the soy sauce stain?

Cancer Chiron is wounded by....not being taken care of enough? Healing by eventually learning to pull one's own weight? I wonder if SN conjunct planet synastry tends to elicit a SN response from the planet person. You know, because they feel so comfortable around someone whose SN energy is there, they relax into it and don't pay attention to growth as much.

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Ava I had a cover sheet so the table was fine. But I just wanted to illustrate how irrational and moody she is. Venus square Pluto, mars square Neptune Natally. I definitely was walking on eggshells around her at time. But then I attracted literally 4-5 other mars/Neptune. Only until recently when I resolved my Leo chiron need that I feel like I don’t have to always handle ppl with kitten gloves and just let the chips fall *shrug*.