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Post by enneline on Sept 6, 2018 15:12:22 GMT
Hi,
there is a young guy in my environment who i find annoying and somehow attractive (not in a sexual way) at the same time; curiously i see him feeling the same or similar about me. We have sooo different views of the world and are strong political opponents.
I wonder what it takes to be attracted and annoyed at the same time while you view the world completely different? I am the one outside, he is inside. As you can see he is significantly younger than me. His birthday is known to me but not the time of birth, so i set his birth time for noon (I highly doubt he is a Leo asc though) we can be sure that he has a moon 21 scorpio - moon 3 sag though
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what we have:
1- his sun conjunct my moon (normally i love that- maybe that's the attraction)
2- his mars receives a trine from sun/asc/venus 3- his venus is conjunct by my mc and trines neptune, Mercury, Jupiter and is opposite my Pluto 4- his Jupiter is widely conjunct by my Saturn/node
5- his mars is inconjunct my Pluto 6- strong venus sq venus = different tastes & values 7- strong venus sq mars = incompatible ways to aApproach things
what do you see? I would be curious since this is one of the strangest "connections" i ever had- and also one of the most repulsive |
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Post by Ava on Sept 6, 2018 21:54:41 GMT
Hi enneline , The transiting sun and Neptune are in opposition today, so it's interesting that you ask about this now, as you two have that in synastry. Your sun opposing his Neptune and Uranus. It's on your own DSC, so that probably explains much of the fascination, not to mention that he may have moon-Pluto in Scorpio (magnetic) and his Pisces Mars together all hitting your sun. His Mars on your south node. So it looks kind of magical and deep that way. But your suns are squaring each other, and you have Mars square Mars....so clashing is probably inevitable. Yet because your sun and his moon are conjunct, and both disposited by Mars, even the way that you clash will have certain elements that feel really familiar, close, and entwined. As you said, you disagree, but maybe your style of arguing matches, or appeals to each other. His Aqua Saturn opposing your Mercury-Jupiter might just bring you down a bit. Transiting Venus-Mars square in Libra/Cap is t-squaring your synastry conjunction in Aries, so that might feel revved up but uncomfortable. Hope others reply, too.  |
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Sept 7, 2018 0:10:59 GMT
I agree, Mars square Mars is trouble (fun while it lasts) and sun square sun exacerbates it.
If I'm seeing this right, you also have venus square venus? That might be where the 'different values' part comes in. :edit: Oh, I see you already mentioned that.
Your mercury-Jupiter opposing his Saturn. Bit of a killjoy...
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Post by anela on Sept 7, 2018 22:00:36 GMT
Mars square Mars is awful. I have that with my BIL, and I can't stand him, but he hit on me.
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Post by enneline on Sept 10, 2018 11:22:21 GMT
Hi enneline , The transiting sun and Neptune are in opposition today, so it's interesting that you ask about this now, as you two have that in synastry. Your sun opposing his Neptune and Uranus. It's on your own DSC, so that probably explains much of the fascination, not to mention that he may have moon-Pluto in Scorpio (magnetic) and his Pisces Mars together all hitting your sun. His Mars on your south node. So it looks kind of magical and deep that way. But your suns are squaring each other, and you have Mars square Mars....so clashing is probably inevitable. Yet because your sun and his moon are conjunct, and both disposited by Mars, even the way that you clash will have certain elements that feel really familiar, close, and entwined. As you said, you disagree, but maybe your style of arguing matches, or appeals to each other. His Aqua Saturn opposing your Mercury-Jupiter might just bring you down a bit. Transiting Venus-Mars square in Libra/Cap is t-squaring your synastry conjunction in Aries, so that might feel revved up but uncomfortable. Hope others reply, too. Thank you, lovely talented Faith
Oh wow, i have totally missed the obvious Neptune/Uranus stuff on my desc. Yes, that might be the fascination. I mean it's really awkward. I do know that he is an a-hole, nonetheless i find him fascinating- and nauseating (you should hear his political views...disgusting) at the same time.
On the other Hand, yes, somehow the way we discuss things proves that we basically get along well with each other. It's like: we get along well, i do know that he likes me, even the discussions run smoothly but as soon as he starts with his strange views, i could strangle him cruely. Also, every now and then i find him really very dislikeable. it is one of the strangest "relationships"/"Connections" i ever felt with someone.
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Post by enneline on Sept 10, 2018 11:24:48 GMT
I agree, Mars square Mars is trouble (fun while it lasts) and sun square sun exacerbates it.
If I'm seeing this right, you also have venus square venus? That might be where the 'different values' part comes in. :edit: Oh, I see you already mentioned that.
Your mercury-Jupiter opposing his Saturn. Bit of a killjoy...
thank you!
oh yes, merc/jup - opposing his Saturn: sometimes i could really beat him; he seems sooo narrow-minded and unbearably conservative. My merc/jup can't stand narrow-mindness ...
yes, mars sq mars, sun sq sun and venus sq venus put together is really a dealbreaker- sometimes we get along very well though....
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Post by enneline on Sept 10, 2018 11:26:48 GMT
Mars square Mars is awful. I have that with my BIL, and I can't stand him, but he hit on me. thank you
who is BIL? 
Well, i can't stand him too but he doesn't hit on me- at least i never noticed it
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Post by lumina on Sept 10, 2018 13:28:56 GMT
enneline I find it fascinating that ALL your personal planets are incompatible with each other (same planets) except for Mercury. it`s just a minor thing probably, but I´ve never seen so much discord between the same planets. Usually at least some are harmonizing with each other. Elementwise at least. Of course you do have some cross-harmony, like Sun-Moon, stuff like that.
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Post by enneline on Sept 10, 2018 14:10:21 GMT
enneline I find it fascinating that ALL your personal planets are incompatible with each other (same planets) except for Mercury. it`s just a minor thing probably, but I´ve never seen so much discord between the same planets. Usually at least some are harmonizing with each other. Elementwise at least. Of course you do have some cross-harmony, like Sun-Moon, stuff like that. yeah, i also noticed that. Like Demi Moore and Ashton but i am not as insane about him as Demi had been obviously. I mean i'd rather hang myself in the backyard than putting up with a right wing (AfD  )
also ,the sun conj moon thing is not great when it hangs alone in the air. however, Uranus & neptune on dc can mean something and my cancer stuff trining his mars, etc. is not too easy to ignore
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