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Post by Ava on Mar 22, 2019 3:51:12 GMT
Caps get discouraged very easily Heck yeah...discouraged mainly with criticism or absences, like you thought the person would be there, but they aren't. Discouraged by lukewarmness. I'm sorry that I deleted from this thread so it's not flowing right.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 22, 2019 9:20:54 GMT
Lol. Revisiting this thread ~ still laughing at your post. I love that you pull no punches. Have their back but you gotta have your back. To Scorpio thatās a sign you donāt trust them and cancer or scorp can get upset over your insistence to stand on your own feet True, add Pisces to that. And Libra too, though they'll try to hide it.
Ha! I mean you should do it all the time when dating any sign. Itās just smart (cap venus speaking here š). However Iāve never seen anything more priceless than how surprised someone can be when dumped by a cap... uhhh your game didnāt add up, you lose! Especially if you have venus in Aries or gem where you thought you had gamesš Libra actually either plays the field or they truly fall for you. Yeah, when they drop you it feels a bit cold but if you thinks about it you wouldnāt blame them. Cap is coldddd though. They donāt check every single scenario to see if things can work out with you, more like they check all the scenario where you can be beneficial for them (and itās not just money, itās the empire theyāre building). Venus in Capricorn is said to be this sad position that eventually becomes so efficient at breakups. I slightly disagree that weāre sad but truth be told we cut our loss BEFORE you get to power strip and disrespect us and some of us can be very sadistic if you donāt know how to do the same. Older venus in caps/Capricorn are solid AF. They can live with or without you. I canāt say the same about every single Pisces or libra.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 22, 2019 11:52:40 GMT
Hmm, I see what you mean...
Older venus in caps/Capricorn are solid AF. They can live with or without you. I canāt say the same about every single Pisces or libra. Lol. Painfully true.
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Post by Ava on Mar 22, 2019 15:46:25 GMT
However Iāve never seen anything more priceless than how surprised someone can be when dumped by a cap... uhhh your game didnāt add up, you lose! Sorry to keep making this about myself but I wanted to confirm that guys were typically shocked when I left, mainly because I didn't give reasons or closure. I can think of three dramatic WTF (?!) reactions I've gotten: - A package of letters from one ex telling me off. Many letters of fury. - A long accusative letter simply put in my mailbox (no stamp) - A poem left in my sketchbook with the word "why" at the top, underlined all the way to the bottom of the page. Then I can think of several other guys complaining. I never understood that because it was obvious to me that they didn't really care about me all that much. I guess it was more the feeling of rejection they didn't like. I am an effusively warm person with all these exes, my general demeanor doesn't change, so eventually with most of them everything did get healed. Like after I got that big package of hate letters I called the guy up laughing and saying "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?" and we worked it out. I think Caps don't hurt people just to hurt them....well my Cap ex wrote me notes for a long time after we broke up to make sure I was okay. He is the only one who ever did anything like that. Pls don't quote, just babbling here...
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Post by Deleted on Mar 22, 2019 16:22:27 GMT
Ava well cap donāt just do it to hurt ppl because itās a business decision. But Capricorn tends to be quiet, reserved, seemingly more boring and clingy than they actually are. Our decision to commit is sometimes viewed as girly clinginess (cancer-y) but really we made the choice to hang out with you and we can totally rescind the offer, Iāve noticed gem/Aries/Leo venuses think I need them and then I pull out and go on with other options and their face is completely surprised, like they got caught off guard that theyāre not my only options, that I wasnāt clingy to them, I made the choice to commit. Then they realize I really have invested in them but they screwed it up by taking me for granted and disrespecting or underestimating me. I donāt think Iām bad at communicating how much I care, Iām just not communicating all the flaws I see in them .... uhhhhb im not a Virgo. Duh! Cappy are passsed pushing oneās luck .., that Saggi kinda game. We have our cards ready. You donāt behave weāll the plug and in cappy style- be a bit demeaning about it too. EDIT: I guess the fact we drop it so casually and politely is a problem too... I always wish them the best, thank them for the time we had to.... especially when it comes to the exploittive bosses I had who thought since Iām hard working Iād take anything
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Post by Ava on Mar 22, 2019 22:54:50 GMT
@theunknown,
I can relate to all of that. Our Venus-Neptune conjunctions are probably evident. I think we tend to "pay it forward" by trying to see the other person in an especially good light, because that's the kind of relationship we desire, where it's mutually supportive and bringing out the best in each other.
However, I think this takes effect: "That which we obtain too easily, we esteem too lightly." (Thos. Paine)
People may think they have obtained us too easily, if we are being emotionally generous up front. So they turn around and esteem us too lightly. Maybe other Venus-Neptune peeps respond differently at that point....but Saturn types are not built to be taken lightly. I mean under all our gushing about them and overlooking flaws, there was a bedrock of sincerity they missed.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2019 0:22:54 GMT
Ava ahhh I guess but then there are times when believing in someone really pays off. Iām not gonna change my approach... Iām not crying over spilled milk so to speak. I hope ppl look back in time years later and be ashamed that they mess up and stat caring about others more. Also lots of ppl have given to me without asking anything back. As angry and begrudging my venus in 8th, Pluto in 7th can be, as time passes I hardly ever remember the ones who screwed things up but I always remember the ones Iām indebted to and thatās reassuring.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 23, 2019 11:43:16 GMT
Ha! I mean you should do it all the time when dating any sign. It just struck me that you probably meant financially. I was thinking of emotional co-dependence. Financial situations are tricky, sure, but even if you're financially independent, emotionally separating yourself from a person or situation is tough. Maybe that's something one should work on, I dunno...
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2019 16:55:05 GMT
Ha! I mean you should do it all the time when dating any sign. It just struck me that you probably meant financially. I was thinking of emotional co-dependence. Financial situations are tricky, sure, but even if you're financially independent, emotionally separating yourself from a person or situation is tough. Maybe that's something one should work on, I dunno...
No I mean everything... financially, professionally, emotionally... this is where libra is a lot less sinister. Yāall wanna blend. Capricornās have clear boundaries. It progressed from Taurus. This is yours, that is mine but not just when it comes to earthy possessions like Taurus. Capricorn have mentally split their feelings towards you in a box, their evaluation of your career, how youāll benefit their image, what you have to offer in a few other boxes. Especially if they have a Capricorn venus. Oh hell yeah theyāre gonna have things marked down in the heads. When things fall apart theyāre ready for that divorce to not turn into a nasty public affairs or if it does, they still come out swinging. EDIT: I want to add that this is why Taureans are more likely to be trophy wives because Cappy tend to realize they need their own empires so they can stand solidly with or without you and hence their love is the real deal. (If they are older/evolved). Alicia Keysā āIf I aināt got youā is an ode to cap venus (āsome people want it all, diamond rings, flower, etc... I want you) They do the legwork (prenuptial, etc) so that you only come for them when itās about the real deal, not some flashy BS. And they donāt want to date ppl who taint their image but you donāt have to be the richest man alive or most beautiful woman. I canāt see any cap venus ever attracted to Elon Musk ... rich businessman who demands his women to be blonde lol). Cap hold their power in the relationship. You donāt get to tell them what to do with their lives. They are responsible and thoughtful but not a pushover or willing to merge with you like Taurus, Pisces, Libra kinda vibe. Christian bale, Justin Timberlake, even Bradley Cooper are not really having power couple vibes with their partners at all. I mean their partners are ok... but not really power couple. Iām so annoyed by Alyssa Sharpe for spreading that idea. We date ppl we trust. Ppl who are successful are not always trustworthy. Lots of successful ppl are batshit crazy. We know that. To me power couple is more like libraāAries, or Leo kinda vibe. We donāt wear our relationship on our sleeves.
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Post by Ava on Mar 24, 2019 14:09:07 GMT
Astrology is hard sometimes. I see what you're saying @theunknown but some power couples have Cap stuff...Brad Pitt with his Cap stellium, anyone he seriously dated back in the day, they were the power couple. But he and Angelina tapered off into a more private kind of life, just like other Cap moon men Ryan Gosling and Johnny Depp.
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Post by 12YearsABlob on Mar 24, 2019 20:36:27 GMT
Thanks for responding, @theunknown. I see where you're coming from, but will have to chew on that for a bit... True that. From what I've seen, the relationship doesn't get off the ground unless they trust that the other person is as committed as they are.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 24, 2019 20:46:17 GMT
Ava yes I think lots of cap relationships are relationship goals, but when ppl talk about power couples they almost seem to say we are out aiming to be āitā, to be viewed as āitā and we are not. Our hearts are too sensitive to even be all over Instagram š doing acro yoga. Thatās fire sign game. We aim for real love, that kinda long lasting, sincere, truthful connection. I totally agree with you on this
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Post by Deleted on Apr 2, 2019 16:51:55 GMT
Cap Venus Aesthetics
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Post by Ava on Sept 24, 2020 21:29:23 GMT
Sigh...bumping old threads is sad. This forum is missing members. Just wanted to say that one of my Cap moon sons just asked me to watch a very sad but heartfelt documentary about a guy who lost his brother, around the time of his lunar return today. I think Cap moons have a bad rap for being cold. They are very attuned to grave situations and the emotional depth of them. They may not be the warmest when they think your issues are trivial, I grant that. Also I wanted to say the book Sextrology is really on point about Capricorn, from what I've read at the bookstore (wouldn't bring a book with that title home!) The substance of that book is better than the title suggests IMO. Pls don't quote
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Post by midnight on Sept 25, 2020 10:59:44 GMT
My sister is a Cap Moon, and she can't stand any signs of affection. Every time someone shares some problems with her or distress seems like she feels very uncomfortable. I think she should have joined the army to be honest, especially with her Aries Asc. Hahaha, AvaI have this book. It's very good actually. Maybe you could buy it and just put a sticker to cover the name
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Post by anela on Sept 26, 2020 3:02:53 GMT
Ava yes I think lots of cap relationships are relationship goals, but when ppl talk about power couples they almost seem to say we are out aiming to be āitā, to be viewed as āitā and we are not. Our hearts are too sensitive to even be all over Instagram š doing acro yoga. Thatās fire sign game. We aim for real love, that kinda long lasting, sincere, truthful connection. I totally agree with you on this My instagram is private, and only for people that I trust to be there. "We aim for real love, that kinda long lasting, sincere, truthful connection." So do I. I don't see why they attributed this only to Capricorn.
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Post by Ava on Sept 26, 2020 13:29:23 GMT
^ Cap can come off as extremely self-centered, emotionally inhibited and unavailable, not to mention unattractive and awkward, so love is not the easiest thing....so I think that comment is like a reminder that despite how things are and appear, Cap still is an earth sign, heavily motivated and inspired by sensuality and whatever is real/substantial/concrete. Cap is quality-conscious, associated with diamonds. It wants the very best for itself in every area. Yet, Caps often feel unlovable or cannot trust love because they learned early on that they can be fooled by infatuation...Caps might actually refuse to go through the infatuation phase or reveal the extent of their feelings. It's a carpet that can get ripped out from under them and they hate that. Again, the emphasis is on "lasting" and durability. Maybe Caps aren't status-conscious so much as we are security-conscious. To the point of paranoia. So no, we don't want to pose with our "true love" only to be unmasked later as having poor judgment and foresight.
Other signs might shrug it off, the public turnaround, knowing we're all entitled to experiment with relationships, and you win some, you lose some....
But for a Cap to admit "I thought this was real enough to publicize, but it wasn't" can be difficult or even impossible.
I think it's for that reason that if you blindside a Capricorn, they will probably never trust you again.
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Post by Ava on Sept 26, 2020 13:37:05 GMT
My sister is a Cap Moon, and she can't stand any signs of affection. Every time someone shares some problems with her or distress seems like she feels very uncomfortable. I think she should have joined the army to be honest, especially with her Aries Asc. Hahaha, Ava I have this book. It's very good actually. Maybe you could buy it and just put a sticker to cover the name Your sister sounds cool. Well I like Cap moons, feel that I understand them. Thank you for verifying the book is very good, so I don't just look sleazy recommending it. LOL...it's literature. I think I actually need it but will put it in some kind of disguise, like a book cover.
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Post by anela on Sept 26, 2020 17:46:22 GMT
Most of that first paragraph sounds like me. I'm a year older than you, and still single. I have no Capricorn, but it's my third house, and Saturn squares my chart ruler. It's like with the Taurus: anyone else might have thrown themselves at him last year, when he decided they could be "the one." Not me. I told him it was probably a transit. My cappy sister just threw herself into something with her husband, and her main interest in the internet, when we first signed up, was chatting with men, and finding herself a boyfriend. I held back with someone, and he eventually disappeared (with the worst excuse I've ever heard, so I have trouble remembering his name). I'm also security conscious, and lose sleep over not feeling secure.
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